Tuesday open thread ~ open trust
Trust, once earned, is a very strong bond. Trust once lost, is nearly impossible to regain.
Good day and welcome. Today is probably some culture's celebration of something very important to that groups' past/present/future well being, or something. Too shy to goggle that stuff, so cheers to the envelope that guides your ship.
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The editorial board decided the CHANGE from the previous installment didn't have the pizzaz required to enhance the topic. So, we decided to dive a bit deeper and present TRUST as a worthy subject. It had to go all the way to the supremacist council for approval. Much gnashing of virtual teeth. The usual abstainers and wind socks.
So here we are. For the more cynical among this audience -- In dog (or cat) we trust. All others pay cash. HA For the more optimistic -- building trust within our communal well being may bear (or tiger) fruits.
Trusting your sources is important. We value our social intercourse to the degree that we allow ourselves to be open to interpretation. In these times of mass mental manipulation, one is to wonder, what is driving this push to trust the source of whatever idea, opinion, or context is being presented. Are we being told by the mass manipulators that such and such is the way to consider this situation or that? Perhaps. Obama allowed psy-ops to be directed at us. As well as their other enemies? You betcha!
Just trying to express one of the healthy awakenings that comes with the awareness of our constitutional right to question authority. If we are unable to trust the judges that allow criminal activity, we are just left to trust our own judgements. How to sue the judges after all?
Found a similar discussion on one our sister sites (NC), although it was focused more on trans-generational distrust learned by abusive govt. policies. The thread that followed produced some interesting perspectives. I choose to stay on the trustiness side of the teeter-totter against mistrust.
Some of the money quotes follow the tiger below (tie into the disney tiger above, almostly).
https://www.nakedcapitalism.com/2019/03/the-impact-of-within-group-confl...
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distrust is not as socially destabilizing as this research implies. It may well be a counterbalance to further abuse.
And as Fukuyama’s (actually rather good) book points out, it takes a very long time to create trust, but a very short time to destroy it.
How does one trust anyone when the govt protects the crooks, when the govt isn’t on the side of the good guys?
Is it because being trustworthy in system that cannot be trusted is simply a waste of personal resources?
The lost of trust in an untrustworthy authority in a situation in which one has little control made a deep impression.
in a high-trust society, you can do a lot of business based on a handshake
Betrayal is the most unforgivable sin
a series of expert algorithms generating a consensus model based on weighted averages
the zen of mental maintenance entrusting communal values
Painting is Pine Dusk from Vesna Antic via fineartamerica.com
Graphite turbo dog by Columbian Mateo Pizzarrro via Colossal surreal section
Video clip by dangerous disney jungle book
Golden Tiger Naked Capitalism
Float your ideas as may seem fitting or otherwise. Make 'em earn your trust. It don't come easy.
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oh wow, scanning the naked capitalism essay
and being enlightened by the Jungle Book video clip, all I can come up with right now, is, what do you do, if you can't even trust yourself fully?
I have a lot of trust in mother-child and parent-child trust. If that one gets betrayed, it's like the beginning of the end, right?
Well, I have a lot of trust that the c99percenters choose good essays and analysis to lose your mind over.
I just lost my mind asking myself what about Tina Turner would have asked: "What's trust got to do with it?
Don't shoot me. I am innocent. My answer would be: a lot!
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The family trusts you mention
Are an important dynamic lasting decades. Sometimes strengthening. at others eroding. Knowing you're trusted is comforting in itself.
Tiger by the tail.
Tulsi support is growing
With aloha
I trust the the propaganda based punditry will not be reporting this.
Aloha. She is in the randomized lineup
Hah! I picked a random site from the search return, have no idea who wxyz dot com is, no idea at all. copy pasta
No one in their right mind would watch twelve primary debates, that's what I think. random reruns
Odds are, the peace talker will be randomly placed in a not-so-popular time slot. wanna bet Don't forget, The House always wins.
good luck
Great stuff from the editorial board, thanks.
"The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them." --Ernest Hemingway
[video:https://youtu.be/d70vnTLd4N4]
Goodnight from me, and good morning to you.
Indeed Hemingway
Sings up a potential path.
Thanks for the reggae!
Cheers,
and thank you too.
After Kathy Sierra: Followed and Liked by strangers? nope
TOP linkage trigger alert below... giddyup
http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Kathy_Sierra_incident
Before that when I worked at the co-op, was very chuffed with my fine lesbian identity, home owner, good job, "married", with cats etc.. Happy go lucky. Then a new guy came on the bread line, fresh out of prison he was fine and nice and everything was cool. Then he found out I was "married " to my gf and he totally lost his shit and wanted to kill us. srsly He found out where we lived, and parked on the street, and spewed all kinds of hatred in the communication book at work. Got fired, went back to prison. fuck
When fb ipo'd I was all "r u kidding!" Virtual personalities Liking and Following? hell no DON'T STALK ME BRO
Is today's topic a funny coincidence? I don't know. I'm wearing the Systems Software shirt Mickey Mantle gave me and remembering his sage advice, "Lower your expectations." In other words: Don't expect anything to fit. Also, don't expect equal pay for equal work. Don't expect anything, just do as your told. daddy nose
If I had the capacity to have taken that advice, perhaps I would be remembering a happy life right now. no such thing
buddha fail
Recently I lost trust in cops and banks, the last bastion of my orphan sanity. Now I only trust what's in front of my face... mostly homeless people. huh
I think like a poor person now because I am one. simple
mental case
The main reason I hesitate to give my address to people I never met, is then I can't talk out loud about feelings that make some folks wanna call the cops. 5150 If that happens I'm dead, ironically. help not help
PEACE
good day
Morning eyo
stalking stuffers
gospel song for doubters in the rain
peace
We saw another steelhead trout in the creek yesterday
Should I trust a referral for shock therapy? No, I can't. It is a bridge too far right now.
Shock Therapy - The Simpsons
boycott youtube advertisers
I wish they had studied the USA and the American Dream, instead of the Cultural Revolution over there in that article and discussion at NC. whataboutism The psychology of becoming poor while experts agree, everything is fine... falling out of the middle back to the working and finally the useless eater class. What's the point bzzt! bzzt! bzzzzzt! holy grail bell
"I'd rather have a frontal lobotomy, than a bottle in front of me." maybe i forget
Always look on the bright side of life
Bare Necessities
Maslow's Jungle
I am still wondering about edible books from yesterday. Who ever heard of such a thing? not me
Once upon a time
Kept a journal of the meandering journey set upon to discover. Many years worth of descriptive prose. One day, the golden lab upstairs found it and tore it to shreds. Smithereens. Not sure if he was helping or hurting the effort, so ran him hard around the block. Made us both feel better.
Talk about eating your words. At least with a cookbook you can taste the pictures
Are you saying your dog ate your homework?
There is always Music amongst the trees in the Garden, but our hearts must be very quiet to hear it. ~ Minnie Aumonier
yeah, sorta kinda
all of my best earlier work was eaten by a dog. Not quite ready for human consumption, I guess. Can say tho, the doggie had excellent taste in contemporary literature. HA
Simiilar thing happened to my digital portfolio
Helooooo Mr. Bush! (The Simpsons)
Where my mind first drifted on edible books was to Rocky & Bullwinkle, Boris and Natasha.
Jet Fuel Formula (23 & 24)
Thanks, add this to signals I did not receive before today: The Marijuana Subtext of Rocky & Bullwinkle
cheers
For a good while, I (blindly) trusted Democrats.
Then, I trusted that I could not be fooled by politicians again, but I was wrong about that, too.
Lily Tomlin
Cynicism gets a bad name...
Especially considering that the slur is trotted out by con artists who want you to stop asking so many damn QUESTIONS! Just trust them already!
I mean, anybody who's ever argued with a child knows how annoying the tactic of questioning EVERYTHING is, especially if it makes you confront your own underlying assumptions... and it gets even MORE annoying when they point out stuff that you hoped they wouldn't notice...
So, yeah, I totally get why faith based folks really HATE Cynics. Maybe they'd like to explore why they are so upset by questions? I think they can make some good progress by thinking about that. What's that? Even asking questions is offensive and indicative of my hatred?
Interesting. Why do they feel that way?
/snark
[video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=95RFHR-8YuI]
I do not pretend I know what I do not know.
trust your questions
will bother some
peace
Former Florida surgeon general expected to be next Sonoma County
health officer
Timing is everything. LOL help me please. Who is this person from FL gonna run the health departments now?
A Seventh-day Adventist Organization
? wait wut
plonk
separation anxiety
This seven day god is an architect.
Thought he rested on the seventh?
Surprise, surprise
it seems like
most,some, a few, Americans are loosing faith in our institutions. This may be a good development though, it may at least help us see more clearly.Thanks for the OT and the music. More Chris Smither with some good advice, "don't bet the farm".
Who do you trust?
Shere Khan or Humans?
[video:https://youtu.be/OD3CLzPER34]
Good question...
But remember, at least with Shere Khan, he's not going to lie to you.
There is always Music amongst the trees in the Garden, but our hearts must be very quiet to hear it. ~ Minnie Aumonier
Just going to drop this here ............
This was not cool. I am not a fan of Ana, but really...
"Religion is what keeps the poor from murdering the rich."--Napoleon
Is Ana the one who spent the entirety of an "interview" spewing
anti-Tulsi propaganda and talking points? If so, that might explain it.
That, in its essence, is fascism--ownership of government by an individual, by a group, or by any other controlling private power. -- Franklin D. Roosevelt --
Excuses?
If she can't handle Ana, well, enough said.
"Religion is what keeps the poor from murdering the rich."--Napoleon
well, i dunno if thi Ana person is the one I'm thinking of or
not, but, if they are, then they had a chance to conduct an interview and there is no need to waste any more time on them since they have no intrest in what the candidate has to say about anything or where the canidate stands on anything or what they stand for. It isn't a question of "hanling" somebody so muh as it is of haing an interview as opposed to an "interview" and of having something vaguely resembling an intelligent discussion.
That, in its essence, is fascism--ownership of government by an individual, by a group, or by any other controlling private power. -- Franklin D. Roosevelt --
And this.
"Religion is what keeps the poor from murdering the rich."--Napoleon
Frankly, all you need to do
Is take your cue from the look on the girls face. She knew, instinctively, uncle joes "touch" felt very very wrong. And if that young girl had any pre-pubescent development then Joe Biden is not only a "creep", but a child molester as well.
There is always Music amongst the trees in the Garden, but our hearts must be very quiet to hear it. ~ Minnie Aumonier
Aloha. The War Of Terror is bull sh*t so yeah
Personally, I'd rather not have another hothead for precedent, jumping in to Iraq warfare with both feet does not show good decider instincts if you ask me. She is still in the military, reserves or whatever.
To end the cycles of violence, stop being violent. Explain how the War of Terror stops violence... kill them all or convert them? not rational Like wasabi or whatever that religion she's against. saud house That is not national defense, that is inhuman offense in my view. war crimes Blow back does not just arise from regime change, economic sanctions are fully weaponized and deployed everywhere now. meh
After all that, Bernie will probably put her on his "short list" if he stays in it to win it. could be worse
PEACE
More excuses. Point is, she refused, and it doesn't look good.
Are you saying running away from her critics is the way to go? If she can't handle Ana, who else can't she handle? The bigger question is why did TYT agree to it? I would have told Tulsi to take a hike and made her demands for a safe space or else a big story on the show.
"Religion is what keeps the poor from murdering the rich."--Napoleon
Are you saying running away from her critics is the way to go?
@eyo @dkmich - I think Gabbard made pretty clear
that you don't fight terrorism by making violent unjust wars. If you are willing to listen carefully what she said on this video to the very end. around TC 7.08 especially, it would be hard to ignore what she said about wars, violence and fighting terrorism.
So, basically being a member of the US reserve as major makes you a violent lusty war hawk with bad decider instincts and a hothead?
I do believe that she did not "jump on the occasion to making war in Iraq with both feet", just because she didn't avoid to do her service tour, when the Iraq war was already in his third year? Avoiding her service tour deployment would have been much worse than doing it. That has nothing to do with 'jumping in and being war hawkish', imo. If she had circumvented her deployment, she would have been accused of being a privileged daughter of a well-known politician father and abusing her status as that, leaving the dirty work of getting sent into a war zone, which was very much NOT good for fighting terrorism (as she clearly understood) to the poor other soldiers, who had to do it.
Biden was another case. He was very proudly abusing his son's deployment into war for his own political career. That I found way more appalling than those hands on the wrong places. But your mileage may vary.
@dkmich
She did nor run away, she handled it the way she thought the interviewer deserved to be handled. She has that right. Just because someone thinks she is a super duper interviewing talking host, doesn't make her one. I am glad Gabbard handled that interviewer fighting back in her own way.
May be I mixed things up. But if a person didn't run away, then it was Gabbard.
I guess I agree on disagreeing with you both. But basically I wonder where you got your opinion about her from? Any factual base and sources for your opinions you mentioned? Links that show her as lusting to be some violence loving war hawk or a running away coward?
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You want a factual base for my opinion? really
So I guess my factual basis is from family too, just like you and yours? I grew up in a political household protesting war, constantly. hugs If we can disagree and still love each other, that is pretty good I think. go in peace
your comment didnt hurt me, I just
don't like if anyone who happens to be enlisted in the US military is personally made responsible for the wars the US engages in. Those decisions to invade Iraq, or fight in Syria, or engage in Afghanistan or Yemen militarily, however directly or indirectly, are made by politicians and the MIC, not individuals in the military.
In my family? Well, my father was German. So, in the big war of wwII he happened to be on the wrong side as all Germans were. When he was eighteen, he was drafted into wwII directly after highschool and ended up being bombarded somewhere in Romania by US AirForce and lost his arm, then was captured by Russian and ended up in Russia as POW for 3 1/2 years, came back and learned the real truth about the extend of Hitler's Holocaust and KZ Gas chambers after returning by reading.
My father had lifelong nightmares, I guess one would call that today PTSD, one didn't categorize those things in Germany as any kind of syndrome back then. I clearly had two teachers in my high school, who had severe trauma or PTSD and we witnessed those effects during our classes. It was something you wouldn't forget as a child. But unfortunately we were on the wrong side. The rare times my father voiced an opinion, he just said that they (young drafted German teenagers or young men drafted into wwII war) were all betrayed.
My father was not an enthusiastic Nazi, but he was a racist without him or us ever realizing it until decades later ... well, ok, it became obvious let's say to me. He still was a responsible and loving father and suffered under his own feeling more than I first understood.
My son unfortunately was recruited into the US Air Force a couple of weeks before GWBush became President. I was not earning much by myself in the US, he felt he needed some kind of financial support to be able to pay for college. Voila, my son accepted to be recruited and I had no clue what that really meant.
I had no clue who GWBush was either. Unfortunately 9/11 happened a couple of month later and from the next month on, the Airmen were trained for the upcoming war in Iraq. I learned meanwhile who GWBush was. It didn't help to be opposed to the war in Iraq as a soldier, because you can't get out of your contract. My son participated in the invasion into Iraq on convoys to support the troops and got into combat situation in Nasiriyah and I think Baghdad and Kirkut. (He just once said he knows how many he killed. Less than two hand fulls, but those were two hands full too many. It were these combat situations that made him break and fall apart for good)
He spent one year in South Korea serving in vicinity of the DMZ zone on a daily basis. His years-long long distance girl friend dropped him and he had the first open signs of PTSD. He didn't finish his contract of six years and left the Air Force short of five month before the end of it. Honorably released, but they made him pay back his whole bonus he got when enlisting. It took him a long time (at least six years or so and a lot of reductions from his tax returns to pay that back. Which tells you something about the greed of the MIC.
My son still gets angry when they categorize him as 'someone with PTSD'. In his mind his anger about the war he was forced into is justified and morally right. He had voiced his opposition to it, before being deployed. Not everyone was so blinded to not understand that the Iraq war was a war crime and not every soldier just jumps on to the occasion to go out play a hero and shoot innocent civilians.
So, yes, I wished the US would have reacted differently to the terror attack of 9/11 and not invaded Iraq or engaged in regime-change intended wars outside their own territory. And Tulsi Gabbard understands the difference between fighting terrorism inside your own country and engaging in regime change wars in foreign countries, that are unconstitutional and violate the UN Charter, quite well.
The US has basically more or less violated all those categories listed in the UN Charter in the recent wars of the last 17 years.
On top of that the Germans took away my son's German citizenship, because he has accepted the US citizenship without asking the German authorities first, to remain German citizen when accepting the US citizenship as the second one.
If you join the foreign country's military, the Germans say, you lose the German citizenship. We didn't know that. So, what do you want? My son is a war hawk jumping on the occasion to fight in wars which constitutes war crimes and being proud of it?
What the heck. Sorry that it still rubs me the wrong way. Tulsi Gabbard ran away? Oh, that's a plonk statement in my books too. So, there you have it. Make out of it what you want.
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I try to understand what you mean, help me
do you think Gabbard has not the right to refuse to talk to a specific interviewer? Why wouldn't she have that right the same way as apparently the interviewer has the right to ask any question she wants to when she interviewed Gabbard before?
Did I misunderstand the situation or you?
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it is not a question of whom one can trust, but of what one can
trust them to be or do. You can trust politicians to act in their own interest. You can trust cops to make the situatin worse. You can trust corporstions to base all decisions on cost=benefit analysis. Trust is the flip side of cui bono. Find out who benefits (or suffers) and how and why they do so, and you will know what to expect of them, but allow for the gullibility of the actors involved. The capitalist precept that people act in their best interests presumes that they know them, that all are buddha. This is demonstrably false.
That, in its essence, is fascism--ownership of government by an individual, by a group, or by any other controlling private power. -- Franklin D. Roosevelt --
question not what deep memories reveal
in your ability to trust. Question more the validity of those now requesting your trust. Is it earned by reason or learned by programming? Seem to have a lot of the latter, day saints trying to shorten the process. To redefine ancestral knowledge for the oft repeated new version of truth. Trust not.
Will put it to the board. Perhaps we can hammer-out the truth aspect next episode.
I trust you all are having a good day...
I left out about dawn for trade day...and walked out in an unexpected shower. Back in to trade coats for a rain jacket...and off again. Drizzled on me till arrival, and then gradually cleared off into a cool clear morning. Sometimes trusting that things will be fine works out just right.
Bought some nice avocados, golden mangoes, and FL strawberries (from a friendly Hispanic family I've come to know)... and a shovel...and spent less than $20. I like visiting with the locals and the vendors.
Is it truth that changes or is it our perspective? Either way Truth is a moving target. My thought is trust is best practiced with tolerance and not an absolute black and white attitude...I trust that I will find what truth I can and hold it as long as it is true to me.
“Until justice rolls down like water and righteousness like a mighty stream.”
Trust in yeses
I follow my ‘yeses’.
If it’s a no, it’s not a yes. If it’s a maybe, it’s not a yes. If it’s a I don’t know, it’s definitely not a yes. If it’s a probably, it’s not quite a yes. If it’s a yeah okay, it’s still not a yes.
If and only if, it is an irrevocable full-on YES, it is a *!! YES !!*
I trust ‘em...
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Yes, trust them inside'a yers'
Seems not to get any clearer than that -- outside.
Sorry, had to run out to be the wizard of oz.