Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue

Something/Someone Old
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I've been looking into the history of the bicycle. Jeez, what a tangled web. There were multiple antecedents to the modern bicycle and controversy at several points over who got to claim credit for inventing any one of them.

The first mention of the idea seems to have come from a student of Da Vinci's though there is a mighty fight going on between different factions of historians over whether or not the sketch is genuine:

The earliest comes from a sketch said to be from 1534 and attributed to Gian Giacomo Caprotti, a pupil of Leonardo da Vinci. In 1998 Hans-Erhard Lessing described this as a purposeful fraud.[1][2] However, the authenticity of the bicycle sketch is still vigorously maintained by followers of Prof. Augusto Marinoni, a lexicographer and philologist, who was entrusted by the Commissione Vinciana of Rome with the transcription of da Vinci's Codex Atlanticus.[3][4]

This is a model built from the possibly fraudulent sketch:

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Back to what is more verifiable, a German named Baron Karl von Drais invented a sort of bicycle in 1817:

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Who knew that the invention of the bicycle had anything to do with a volcanic eruption!

Hans-Erhard Lessing (Drais' biographer) found from circumstantial evidence that Drais' interest in finding an alternative to the horse was the starvation and death of horses caused by crop failure in 1816, the Year Without a Summer following the volcanic eruption of Tambora in 1815)

The next advance in bicycle technology inspired the poet Keats to make a 19th-century version of a "nothingburger" statement:

The concept was picked up by a number of British cartwrights; the most notable was Denis Johnson of London announcing in late 1818 that he would sell an improved model.[12] New names were introduced when Johnson patented his machine “pedestrian curricle” or “velocipede,” but the public preferred nicknames like “hobby-horse,” after the children’s toy or, worse still, “dandyhorse,” after the foppish men who often rode them.[8]

the poet John Keats referred to it as "the nothing" of the day.

This one is kind of hilarious. Somebody claimed his dad invented a new version of the bicycle and cited as proof the fact that he got cited for a moving violation:

The first mechanically propelled two-wheel vehicle is believed by some to have been built by Kirkpatrick MacMillan, a Scottish blacksmith, in 1839. A nephew later claimed that his uncle developed a rear-wheel drive design using mid-mounted treadles connected by rods to a rear crank, similar to the transmission of a steam locomotive. Proponents associate him with the first recorded instance of a bicycling traffic offence, when a Glasgow newspaper reported in 1842 an accident in which an anonymous "gentleman from Dumfries-shire... bestride a velocipede... of ingenious design" knocked over a pedestrian in the Gorbals and was fined five British shillings.

After this point, the development of the machine gets so shrouded in controversy that I almost didn't want to write about it. Suffice to say that at some point in the late 1860s a French metalworker attached pedals to the front wheel and a lot of people fought over who should take credit for it.

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It was so damnably uncomfortable to ride the things at this point that they were nicknamed "boneshakers."

In the 1870s, a British man from Coventry, James Starley, upgraded the boneshaker to the traditional "penny farthing" bicycle. I mainly associate this bicycle with the 1960s dystopian spy thriller The Prisoner. In real life, they were apparently pretty damned dangerous; "coming a cropper" originally meant hitting a bad spot in the road and pitching over the handlebars:

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Even this story is contested, with some people claiming the Frenchman Eugene Meyer invented it.

The big jump forward in bicycle technology was the "safety bicycle," invented by James Starley's nephew John in the 1880s.

The development of the safety bicycle was arguably the most important change in the history of the bicycle. It shifted their use and public perception from being a dangerous toy for sporting young men to being an everyday transport tool for men—and, crucially, women—of all ages.

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Interestingly, the first bicycle to have the same frame as the modern bicycle was invented by an African-American inventor, Isaac R. Johnson, in the late 1880s.

When the bicycle became safe and affordable in the 1880s, it contributed to the rise of what was called, in Britain and the United States, of the "New Woman." It gave women freedom of movement that they hitherto had not enjoyed. What I don't understand is why the prejudice against women walking alone, or for long distances, or doing much of anything outside--which was rife in British culture though not as much in American culture--caved before the advent of this new technology. In other words, why did people change their ideas about female mobility just because there were bikes rather than horses to ride?

But they did, thankfully:

As bicycles became safer and cheaper, more women had access to the personal freedom they embodied, and so the bicycle came to symbolise the New Woman of the late nineteenth century, especially in Britain and the United States.[40] Feminists and suffragists recognised its transformative power. Susan B. Anthony said, "Let me tell you what I think of bicycling. I think it has done more to emancipate women than anything else in the world. It gives women a feeling of freedom and self-reliance. I stand and rejoice every time I see a woman ride by on a wheel...the picture of free, untrammeled womanhood."

Once women cyclists were accepted, that of necessity led to a lot of other changes:

Since women could not cycle in the then-current fashions for voluminous and restrictive dress, the bicycle craze fed into a movement for so-called rational dress, which helped liberate women from corsets and ankle-length skirts and other encumbering garments, substituting the then-shocking bloomers.

That *was* a big deal. Imagine being a Victorian and seeing women riding around in bloomers!

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Something New
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Around the time I was 34, for some reason, I mostly stopped listening to new music. This was in 2002. Since then, I've listened to only a few new (to me, at least) artists: Pink, Adele, Duffy, System of a Down, Florence and the Machine--and in all those cases, I really only listened to a few of their hits. I don't know why I suddenly started listening to nothing but old music, but I did.

Perhaps it has something to do with the way the technology of listening to music shifted; I've never warmed to the mp3 or its various players, which I find annoying in almost every way except their storage capacity. The interfaces on those machines, in particular, are extremely counter-intuitive for me. I also hated the way Apple's mp4 worked only with Apple hardware, and the way in which the early tendency to being able to buy singles of, well, every song, rather than just what the record companies decided to release as a single--which was the one other useful aspect of the mp3/4 phenomenon--shifted somewhere along the way into mainly being able to buy just albums again. Looked like a loss leader to me, and loss leaders irritate me too. I ended up listening to music either on CDs in my car or on YouTube. Thus, the only new music I encountered I found by chance on YouTube (such as this, which came out of a search for Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy):

Anyway, this sad state of affairs has continued for 15 years, and now I'm attempting to bring it to an end. It's time I started listening to some new music. Also, I need something not horrible for the Something New portion of this thread!

So I've been digging around in articles about new bands, looking for things I might like. I came across this in a list of best new albums of 2017. It's a band called Priests, the title track off their album Nothing Feels Natural.

It's supposedly punk. I gotta say that coming back after 15 years is disorienting, because to me this band sounds more like a cross between Bjork and The Cure than Sid Vicious or the Ramones, but whatever. I'm learning.

Something Borrowed
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Apparently most of the retro Spanish/Mexican architecture around Tucson is not the way Spaniards or Mexicans built in Arizona at all. Tucson's most famous and influential architect, Josias Joesler, imported the look from California.

The first true Tucson architecture can be found in Barrio Historico, where a few blocks of 19th-century Sonoran adobe rowhouses survive south of the Tucson Convention Center. (Hundreds of other Mexican-style houses were leveled during the urban renewal of the 1960s.) These hand-built, thick-walled houses—warm in winter, cool in summer—are authentic pieces of vernacular architecture. Their homegrown style responds both to Tucson’s harsh climate and its cultural history as a northern Mexican town.

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By contrast, the Swiss-born Joesler borrowed his styles from elsewhere, notably California, where Mission Revival (red tile, white facades) became all the rage after the Panama-California Exposition of San Diego in 1915. Arriving in Tucson in 1928, Joesler created undeniably romantic—but ahistoric—houses for the Old Pueblo. His best-known works, the mini-haciendas of the old Catalina Foothills Estates, were meant to attract wealthy buyers to a fairytale Southwest redolent of Spanish California.

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Joesler did not build as well for the local climate as the older houses were built. But he did build a hell of a lot better, and more sensibly, than the dribbling architectural goons who followed him later in the 20th century:

He carefully oriented his houses in the foothills toward views of the nearby mountains and desert. To be sure, these snowbird houses were poorly insulated, but their indoor-outdoor spaces took advantage of the mild winter climate, their courtyards, colonnades and screened Arizona rooms drawing on centuries-old principles of design for hot climates. He prized craftsmanship, and employed local Mexican artisans to weld old-style ironwork for the windows and to carve lintels and ceiling beams.

And unlike the slash-and-burn developers of today, who pile on the pink tile and scrape the land bare, Joesler and the Murpheys exactingly preserved the gorgeous vegetation of the desert.

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https://www.tucsonweekly.com/tucson/tile-roofs-and-borrowed-styles/Conte...

Something Blue
YInMn_Blue_-_cropped.jpgDr David Waterhouse, a fossil expert and Python fan, has found that parrots not only lived in Scandinavia 55 million years ago, but probably evolved there before spreading into the southern hemisphere.

His discovery was based on a preserved wing bone of a previously unknown species, given the scientific name Mopsitta Tanta - and now nicknamed the Norwegian Blue.

He was studying for a PhD at the University of Dublin in 2005 when he visited a museum in Jutland and spotted a fossilised 2in-long humerus - appropriately enough, the funny bone - among bird remains which had been found near an open-cast mine.

Research has now confirmed the bone was part of an upper wing from a bird in the parrot family. Although the mine was in Denmark, the birds would also have lived in what is now Norway.

Waterhouse says of its odd Scandinavian location:

"It isn't as unbelievable as you might think that a parrot was found so far north.
"When Mopsitta was alive, most of northern Europe was experiencing a warm period, with a large shallow tropical lagoon covering much of Germany, South-East England and Denmark."

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Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-566600/Norwegian-Blue-parrot-rea...

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Lookout's picture

Like you CSMS, I don't listen to much new music, but I did encounter some young folks based in New Orleans that I like - Hurray for the Riff Raff
http://hurrayfortheriffraff.com/ (has a few songs posted here)
http://www.wfuv.org/content/hurray-riff-raff-2014 (and a few more here)
I like their blend of modern and folk sounds.

Of course we know many young folks who still play traditional music -
Here's a our young friend, Kelli Jones, daughter of musician friend Carl Jones, and her husband Joel Savoy playing great twin fiddles (3 min)
[video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HOihvHzqvGA]

And another young couple based in Nashville...Matt and Rachel Combs (daughter of friend and neighbor James Bryan) 2 min
[video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yK2dOLh_Djw]

I've known them their whole lives and it's been my pleasure to watch these two mature into lovely young women and great musicians. I'm also thrilled they found musical partners to enrich their lives.

Have a good day all!

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@Lookout Well, if you're talking about indie musicians that one can find on youtube,
I've been listening to a little more new music (or new people doing old music)through that venue.
Here's a group I found a couple of years ago:

And then there's Colin and Caroline. I found a lot of new or new-ish music through watching 13 Reasons Why.

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"I tell you I'll have nothing to do with the place...The roof of that hall is made of bones."
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@Lookout Holy shit, that's some great trad. Do they tour?

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@Cant Stop the Macedonian Signal

Kelli and Joel in Lafayette, LA and Matt and Rachel in Nashville.

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A truth of the nuclear age/climate change: we can no longer have endless war and survive on this planet. Oh sh*t.

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today is now instead forecast for tomorrow. I've seen that first bike model, or a copy, in Florence. It has a quite clever working chain drive. To me, the hobby horse style seems cumbersome and an encumbrance, and it is the addition of pedals that makes it a vehicle. Brakes too. The idea of a massive wood bike, weighing who knows what, in hilly Tuscany is still a vision of inconvenience.

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@enhydra lutris Oh, yeah. A lot of those models were pretty horrible. One of them only lasted a year (Keats' nothingburger). One was actually called the Boneshaker.

Early bikes were more of an extreme sport, apparently, until the 1880s.

If you watch Murdoch Mysteries, set in the 1890s, Murdoch's affinity for bicycles is one sign of his modernity (he can ride horses but prefers bikes).

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"I tell you I'll have nothing to do with the place...The roof of that hall is made of bones."
-- Fiver

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@Cant Stop the Macedonian Signal
ones made a big difference in comfort.

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A truth of the nuclear age/climate change: we can no longer have endless war and survive on this planet. Oh sh*t.

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@divineorder No problem, d.o. Are you an afficionado?

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"More for Gore or the son of a drug lord--None of the above, fuck it, cut the cord."
--Zack de la Rocha

"I tell you I'll have nothing to do with the place...The roof of that hall is made of bones."
-- Fiver

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And I'm noticing a very disturbing trend coming out of this election.

So far there has been exactly ZERO statements about what policies will actually be pursued by our new "Diversity Hires".

Zip, zilch, nada. Lot of talk about "The Road Back Starts Here" etc... but as far as actual policies, it's just more of the "Not TRUMP" that we've been getting for the last 2 years.

And twitter gave lots of people double the characters to be condescending about how this election is heroic change.

Fifty bucks says nothing changes, and the excuse given is that we don't have ENOUGH people in office, and that we must elect... wait for it... MOAH DEMOCRATS in order to get anything done. And in 48 hours, there will be no talk of this, except the talking point of "Trump Sucks" yet again.

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@detroitmechworks Oh, dude. We are totally in a post-policy political world. There aren't policy debates around here--not so's you'd notice.

Only on issues the rich don't care about, like LGBT rights, or issues they're genuinely divided on, like immigration or which country we should shoot missiles at.

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"More for Gore or the son of a drug lord--None of the above, fuck it, cut the cord."
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"I tell you I'll have nothing to do with the place...The roof of that hall is made of bones."
-- Fiver

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OK, so one thing about getting older that I don't like: if I shift my routine at all, all sorts of stuff falls through the cracks. This week I started writing daily in the mornings, and that means I don't sit down at my desktop till after I'm done. So I totally forgot about my Open Thread. Apologies to y'all, and I'm gonna have to make my day off Wednesday or this is liable to happen repeatedly!

Like I said, I hate how dependent I've become on routine as I get older.

Although maybe it's not age, but stress. Just living these days makes me sufficiently anxious that I'm doing everything a little worse than usual. Like having a minus 2 to a skill check (for those who've played Dungeons and Dragons).

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"I tell you I'll have nothing to do with the place...The roof of that hall is made of bones."
-- Fiver

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For some reason I am having network connection problems with my computer.

I really enjoyed reading about the history of the bicycle. Cycling is huge in this part of NC. What surprised me is the modern bicycle is not that much older than either the airplane or the automobile.

BTW if I had to do everything on my phone I would go crazy.

Have a great day all.

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“Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable." ~ President John F. Kennedy

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@gulfgal98 Hey, gulfgal!

I'd love to come up to NC sometime (one of my favorite places) and meet you finally. Maybe someday I won't be trammeled by the costs of repairing and furnishing a house and I'll be able to do things like take planes and eat out again!

I'm not really complaining, since I feel lucky to have a house at all, but travel is the hardest thing to give up.

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"I tell you I'll have nothing to do with the place...The roof of that hall is made of bones."
-- Fiver

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@Cant Stop the Macedonian Signal to come visit and stay with us. I run a decent B & B (not a real one - LOL), or so I am told.

As a kid, I was fascinated by the Wright Brothers and their first flight. Now I realize that maybe building bicycles and building an airplane may not have been that much different.

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I enjoyed reading about bicycle history. And I do love the happy face of the old woman at the top.
I think routines are mostly our friends, helpful. But interruptions to them can cause problems.

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@Granma Yeah, I used to be able to adjust to such things on the fly. But now I can't even remember to take my medication unless it's in the place where I go in the morning after getting my coffee--wherever that might be. I've had to move them to the craft room next to my laptop.

Wednesday will be the day off from now on, so this doesn't happen again!

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-- Fiver

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@Cant Stop the Macedonian Signal I call them selective deletions. Wink It is clearing out the mental clutter to make room for more important things. At least that is what I tell myself.

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@gulfgal98 That's awesome. Great framing.

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"I tell you I'll have nothing to do with the place...The roof of that hall is made of bones."
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Bicycles, architecture, and new music. Wonderful.

I don't listen to popular music much anymore. I hear it all the time (sort of) with 3 teenage kids in the house. My hearing is down to about 80% (or less now) in the upper registers, so music doesn't sound the same. I remember the moment when I listened to some familiar orchestral piece and realized there were holes in it. Hearing aides are still pretty expensive and not covered by insurance, so since I am just at home I get by for now.

When I listen to music on YouTube these days I find myself watching opera . . . which I never used to do. Odd aging thing I guess.

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Marilyn

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@mhagle That must be hard for a music lover. I myself have persistent tinitis and some hearing loss--not a lot, actually--associated with it.

I'm mostly OK except when I lie down to sleep at night in a quiet house.

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@mhagle I love Puccini, btw. And I like Mozart. So I don't know a lot about opera, am not a real fan, I guess, but I like it better than your average American bear. Smile

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or what's left of it. There are only a few blocks of those Sonoran row houses left. Some have been gentrified, mostly as law offices, and some are just run down but still occupied. They are all very small. I know that area of town pretty well since my wife used to teach at a school in that neighborhood. Here's a country music vid I always post since a lot of it was shot down there. You'll see Teatro Carmen, El Tiradito all lit up with candles, some desert landscape in the Tucson Mountains just west of the city and one of our gorgeous sunsets. The mural is from a now defunct museum called La Pilita. El Tiradito didn't work for me, by the way. My wife lit a candle there for me when I went to L.A. for an interview with the Foreign Service. I didn't get the gig.
[video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HNY4KwFjwaU width:500 height:300]

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We wanted decent healthcare, a living wage and free college.
The Democrats gave us Biden and war instead.

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@Azazello You're welcome! I hate what's happened to architecture/real estate development in this country since World War II. It only got worse from the 80s on.

It's not that I'm against creating cheap housing so that a large number of people can become homeowners. I just don't think it needs to be a clearcutting, cookie-cutter nightmare of bad materials and greed.

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"I tell you I'll have nothing to do with the place...The roof of that hall is made of bones."
-- Fiver

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@Azazello That's some beautiful landscape. I could never live in the desert--Florida set my expectations and it's all about water, lots of it--but I can certainly appreciate it.

I take it the place with the candles is a center for prayer, or luck rituals?

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@Cant Stop the Macedonian Signal
Read my link above. It's on Main, one block over from Teatro Carmen between a Mexican restaurant and the former La Pilita museum.

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@Azazello That is freaking awesome! Do you mind if I use that as a Something Old in a future OT?

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won over the day for women riding bicycles. Enjoyed reading that.

My first bicycle wasn't even my own, per se. It was a hand me down from a neighbor who got married and moved back east. Her daughter was getting a new bicycle so my Sister and I shared her old one. It had a pink banana style seat and pink handle bar fringes with a basket festooned in plastic flowers. Incredibly dorky looking but I took that beautiful bike all over my neighborhood, and adjacent ones, visiting friends with a sense of freedom and independence I had never had before.

So, in that sense, I can relate to the women of history who took to the bicycle. Even if I wasn't wearing huge puffy sleeves doing it.

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There is always Music amongst the trees in the Garden, but our hearts must be very quiet to hear it. ~ Minnie Aumonier

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@Anja Geitz was my mother's from the 1930's. The balloon tires were replaced by regular tires. It was extremely heavy, but I was so proud to be riding my mother's bicycle to school. In a way, that bicycle symbolizes my relationship with my mother today. I am still very proud to be her daughter. Smile

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@gulfgal98

In a way, that bicycle symbolizes my relationship with my mother today. I am still very proud to be her daughter.

I feel the same way about food and entertaining. When my Mother passed away, my Sister and I found closets filled with China, glassware, candlesticks, tablecloths, napkins, centerpieces, etc., all beautifully preserved for the day she would break them open. But she never did. Too exhausted from raising children as a single Mother on a waitress salary, she rarely entertained. So, both my Sister and I take immense pride by filling our homes with people and cooking the foods my mother was so good at making.

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There is always Music amongst the trees in the Garden, but our hearts must be very quiet to hear it. ~ Minnie Aumonier

but revisit Penguin Cafe Orchestra from time to time to get myself up

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPpRJoYISSQ

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