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Open Thread 27 Aug 2026 - What's Ordinary?

What's Ordinary?

While listening to 'old' music (Is it really that old, really?) the other day, I had one of those epiphanies when one realizes that the lyrics to a good song can mean something different depending upon where the listener is in their life. The song is 'Ordinary World' by Duran Duran. I was definitely a Duranie when I was young; I still am. This is one of three songs that Simon Le Bon, the lead singer of Duran Duran, wrote about the loss of his best friend. I never realized that, until I suddenly heard it with a different frame of mind. I was sobbing as the song played and I heard the words so clearly in my mind, and my heart.

Ordinary World by Duran Duran

Then Dolly Parton died. And Tim Curry. And, it feels like the world around me, not just in me, is going away. I remembered driving to the movie theatre when I had just turned 18, with a bunch of friends, every month on a Saturday night. And the late (post 11 pm) movie would always be Rocky Horror Picture Show and we'd dance in the theatre, sing, parade, and have the best time with everyone else watching the movie.

Go Tim!!

And everything goes on, right? So, here's the open thread! What's up, whatcha doing? Reading? Thinking? Listening to? Remember, everything is interesting if you dive deep enough, so tell us about where you're diving!

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I've realized I've been really missing the boat here at Caucus99%. I am too busy, depressed, distracted, and overwhelmed with family stuff to respond to my Open Thread posts, or to even log on. I've been dealing with all kinds of things about trying to get my 61 year old autistic sister into a care home, and my very, very reluctant and resistant mother into new living arrangements which can provide help for her. Living two miles from the nearest neighbor was great for a long time for my parents and sister, but it's not so good anymore. It's nuts. Just nuts. Mom's going into old age dementia, it's obvious, but getting her to admit that is almost impossible. And maybe it'll never be possible; I'm not sure my father ever admitted it.

So, I wanna say I understand I'm not doing well here right now. I need to step down, or at least take a break for a bit. I am so sorry for this, so sorry. I love this website, this community. You all ROCK!!!!

Please post whatever is happening to you, what you are learning, listening to... whatever. THANK YOU!

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