Meeting in Person and Baking Bread

Combining two topics into one essay here.

The first topic is something I have wanted to say for a long time, but it is pretty short for an essay. Still, I'd like to give it more attention then it would receive as a comment.

Here goes.

Most of us have never met and may never meet the others who blog on this site. IMO, it would be useful to always consider that the majority of us would like each other if we met in person. It seems to be true of those who are able to participate in "meetups."

Personally, I am aware that I am unable to communicate "me" very well in essays. Dyslexia. There are a group of us here who have to wildly edit our writings and just do not have the vast written vocabulary of others (whom I all admire btw). Plus, in my case, sometimes there are goofy happy hour comments. Just fact. The state of the union here. I know I come off as a "pollyanna." Yes, I am, true. But that's not what you get if you meet me in person. I make people laugh. That's true because I see them laugh. It was part of my teaching strategy at the end. I am sure I am a lot edgier than you imagine.

Probably a bit egocentric to make this point. But maybe not if we can all view each other in this light as we write and comment. Maybe some of you wish to comment about the side of you we don't necessarily see?

Topic Number Two

I actually did the bread baking on Wednesday. It's an easy recipe using the bread machine and turns out two loaves of Italian bread per batch. Made a dozen loaves. Three to my family (one was gone before I finished baking), one to a friend, and eight to my neighbor's local baptist church. They usually spend holiday's with us, but this year bowed out because their church was serving a free Thanksgiving dinner, plus taking meals around to people at home. This is a typical fundamentalist baptist church. I don't vote the same. But this in my mind, was an effort that was important to support. My neighbor said the bread was graciously received and they had enough food left over, they are doing it all again today.

Why does this matter?

It's a climate crisis and deep adaptation thing. http://www.lifeworth.com/deepadaptation.pdf As a society, we need to learn to share again. I don't believe we can afford to just wait for the shit-to-hit-the-fan. If we have not learned to share before that time, it will be difficult or impossible to switch gears on the fly.

Originally, I thought I would be sharing vegetables from my garden. Well, as of yet . . . that is far away. But when I learned of the Thanksgiving share event and realized this new bread recipe could be a contribution candidate, it clicked that bread could become the first sharing item.

In my circumstances, the logical distribution system is all of these little local churches. My idea is that whenever I am able, I take bread around to each pastor to distribute to the poor and suffering. Maybe once a month to each of the six churches. Maybe with my neighbor's help, expand it to "Bread, Blankets, and Bells." Blankets are her specialty. The Bells would be "Ben's Bells" (thanks to @CS in AZ for linking to them in a comment! https://bensbells.org/make-bens-bells ). My art teacher friend said she might be interested in helping with those. For those who do not know, Ben's Bells is a spreading-intentional-kindness project.

I admit. Sharing sounds pollyanna. Remember though, it is intended remediation for a vastly frightening situation the world is confronting (but mostly ignoring) at this time.

Looking forward to some great comments.

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Granma's picture

I've made friends of neighbors I didn't know by either borrowing a small tool or showing up at their door with a food item I had an excess of, sometimes something given to me. It was a nice surprise to find that opened the way to a new friendship.

And it is fun. Start now. Don't wait for disaster. Facing the possibility of disaster, or just trouble is easier when you know there are people around you who will help if or when you need it. In the case of neighbors, you find they are keeping an eye out for you. I'm old and live alone. It has been moving to have a neighbor show up with a lovely plate of dinner when they knew I was sick.

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mhagle's picture

@Granma

The beauty of it is that even very small efforts turn out to be wonderful. Glad folks are bringing you food when you are sick.

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Marilyn

"Make dirt, not war." eyo

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@mhagle seem to make a big difference.

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thanatokephaloides's picture

I admit. Sharing sounds pollyanna.

It actually sounds downright righteous, compassionate, and, dare I say it, socialist.

(Says the anarchosocialist!)

Smile

"If we had any nerve at all, if we had any real balls as a society, or whatever you need, whatever quality you need, real character, we would make an effort to really address the wrongs in this society, righteously."
-- Jerome John "Jerry" Garcia (August 1, 1942 – August 9, 1995) source

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"All power corrupts absolutely!" -- thanatokephaloides

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@thanatokephaloides

as a socialist, brother!

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Marilyn

"Make dirt, not war." eyo

Anja Geitz's picture

I'm running out the door right now but will be back to share my thoughts about this wonderful topic.

P.S. You made me smile with your bread sharing story AND you made me laugh when you observed that you might be an egomaniac because you felt compelled to tell us you are a lot edgier than your writing allows.

Love ya, Marilyn! Smile

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There is always Music amongst the trees in the Garden, but our hearts must be very quiet to hear it. ~ Minnie Aumonier

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@Anja Geitz

Look forward to your additional thoughts!

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Marilyn

"Make dirt, not war." eyo

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@mhagle

In response to such a great topic.

Sharing within our neighborhoods is not only practical, it is life enriching. If I sound like a Pollyanna saying that as well, I'm ok with that.

In my neighborhood the idea of sharing began with safety meetings. A handful of neighbors getting together in someone's home to talk about emergency preparedness with a local official. Out of that, a few of us began to get together for wine tastings at my place, and that grew into "mindfulness" get togethers where we breath, stretch, and participate in nurturing exercises.

That was over three years ago, and since then we've organized a small neighborhood co-op for produce and egg sharing, which then developed into cooking classes on creative ways to prepare vegetables, and eventually a community garden where the kids also participate.

I don't agree with all of my neighbors. There are some I've taken issue with for suggesting arming ourselves with handguns. Others who believe we should prepare ourselves for maurading bands of thugs from East L.A. who will somehow find their way to our quiet neighborhood here in the San Gabriel foothills in the event of a major catastrophe. But the focus has always been on the things we do agree on and that usually brings out the human part of our shared humanity.

Which I think is really the most valuable thing we can share. Our humanity.

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There is always Music amongst the trees in the Garden, but our hearts must be very quiet to hear it. ~ Minnie Aumonier

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@Anja Geitz

Thank you for sharing. Very cool and encouraging!

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Marilyn

"Make dirt, not war." eyo

and I thought of this earlier this year at harvest time. For those of us who grow large gardens it would be possible to share our excess vegetables with members here that are unable to grow their own. I give away excess veggies every year to friends and relatives, I would gladly share with members here if I have a good growing season.

Vegetables such as tomatoes and green beans, etc. could easily be boxed up and shipped even if it takes a few days to be delivered. Some veggies like sweetcorn wouldn't hold up well as it starts losing sugars and flavor as soon as it's picked, but other produce would be well suited for shipping.

Just an idea.

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@JtC

I could probably send squash. That was my best crop this year. And no one eats it here except me.

And really, it would be possible to extend sharing far beyond food. Accessing community needs. USPS book/media rate a bit slower but much cheaper. Not sure if it would be practical, but it might be.

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Marilyn

"Make dirt, not war." eyo

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@JtC

Many communities have CSA (community supported agriculture) that usually operates as a weekly subscription service - providing a basket of local (often organic) seasonal produce on a weekly basis. I buy from our young farmers - pastured pork and eggs as well as exotic vegetable I don't grow.

I'm happy to share my harvest with any in need, but if cost isn't an issue, supporting your local folks is a great thing to do. It is hard to make a living off the land and the young farmers need our help. Of course some folks don't have that option.

We could post an announcement when we have excess goods? Sharing the bounty is a fine idea.

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“Until justice rolls down like water and righteousness like a mighty stream.”

@Lookout
I think we really should do that. With that in mind I can even put in a few extra plants next spring for that purpose. I grow all organic, no chemicals at all, not even seven powder. We had a pretty heavy japanese beetle invasion this year but rather than spray or dust I hand picked them. I canned a little over 100 pints of Blue Lake green beans this year and still had enough extra for another hundred jars, I gave those away.

As far as the cost for shipping, we can work something out.

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CS in AZ's picture

Thank you for this essay.

And. I’m delighted that the Ben’s Bells project touched you so deeply that you are carrying it forward. That’s very cool.

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