I'm More Than My Identity

This election cycle has brought forth the destructive nature of Identity Politics. Instead of Democrats looking at how their morally-compromised, ethically-challenged, corrupt, hawkish, neoliberal candidate lost, they instead have turned towards it is the racist's faults, the misogynist's fault, the white, working class' fault. Already, the boardrooms have been churning out media talking points to hand out to their overpaid pundits, on how the white people have suddenly become racists, how men are now all misogynists. It seems that few wish to dive through the chaos of Identity Politics, and also, dissemble the inherent paradoxes that reside inside.

I have had some trepidation penning this, considering the Pavlovian reaction that now exists against those who dare challenge the ideas of Identity Politics. Nonetheless, this election, which perhaps should be viewed as a rejection of Identity Politics, is now being solidified by the Democrats in order to avoid actually helping the poor and middle class. Therefore, now more than ever, is the time to show how toxic this line of thinking can get us.

As this election has demonstrated, Identity Politics allows individuals to be compartmentalized, usually by some arbitrary definition to which values are then ascribed to them, right or wrong. This also quickly brands the undesirables by this same system of ascribing values to them, merely because of a narrative that wishes to be pushed. Of course, the one category that is meticulously neglected is class, because that hurts profits, and those can never be touched.

What has our Identity Politics brought us? If you are Hillary Clinton, you are entitled to women's votes. If you don't vote for her, you have internalized misogyny or "there is a special place in Hell for women who don't support women" as Gloria Steinem put it. Of course, women can't actually be their own free agents, capable of independent thought. White males are the ultimate oppressors, they are to be feared, hated, and discarded. A homeless, scared, white male will never know the level of oppression that Oprah will know. To suggest otherwise is heresy, and will automatically have you branded as a racist and misogynist. If you are Latino, well, automatically that means you are for immigration reform. Of course, this lumps together Cubans, Mexicans, Guatemalans, Puerto Ricans (who are already American citizens), and other groups who get squeezed together in the sardine can of being "Latino".

I am a white male.

If you bring any of this up, you are then bombarded with male privilege, white privilege, male tears, white fragility, and on and on and on to silence your voice.

Since I am white, it is said that since I was born, I have been oppressing every minority, regardless of my actions. Not only do I not oppress others, I also have no desires to oppress anyone; however, none of that matters here.

I am male; since I was born, I have been oppressing women through the patriarchy, regardless of my actions. Not only do I not oppress others, I also have no desires to oppress anyone; however, none of that matters here.

With this line of thinking, I am a problem to the Democrats. My actions, as an individual who is from a poor background and is poor does not matter. All that matters is that I am white and male. But here is the real kicker.

I am bi. When I was younger, I hated that portion of me. I just wanted to be normal in a society that looked down upon it as you were an "other". As I've gotten older, I've merely accepted it as a part of me. It is not something that I hold with pride nor do I despise it. It merely is a facet of me, nothing more.

So, the party who states that I am an oppressor, that because I am white I am racist and because I am a man I am a misogynist, also views me as a loving member who must bow my head and bend my knee because the Democrats care about me, all because I'm bi.

Many Democrats tried to shame people into voting for their candidates, and one particular set of lines included:
If you don't vote for Clinton, you're hurting blacks, latinos, lgbt, etc. Stop thinking only about yourself and think about all the marginalized groups who you will hurt. You don't know what they will go through cause you won't be affected.

I am tired of being used as a shield and club for the Democratic Party. The shield is meant to use us as a means to deflect and protect Democratic officials when they put forth their neoliberal policies. The club is meant to beat down those people who no longer see the Democratic Party as a viable road to economic, environmental, and foreign security and safety.

I voted Green. In 2008, I was too young to vote. In 2012, my first vote for President went to Jill Stein. In 2016, Jill Stein also got my vote. I do not believe the Democrats care about my interests as an individual, about the poor or those suffering under neoliberal policies. I am merely supposed to vote Democrat because of my identity.

I am more than my identity. I have hopes, dreams, values, concerns, experiences, and guiding principles. Just because I am white doesn't mean I don't have the ideal of treating everyone equally. Just because I am male doesn't mean I don't have the ideal of treating everyone equally.

My identity is not my destiny. I am not defined by my identity. Being white does not define my character. Being male does not define my values. And being bi does not define my set of guiding principles.

Do not doom me because of my identity.
I am more than my identity.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.
Martin Luther King Jr.

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Phoebe Loosinhouse's picture

Bernie supporters to be informed of their previously unknown even to themselves misogyny and racism.

Real life isn't that stupid - only on blogs and on TV will pixel people and pundits make such outrageous statements. But it was a defining moment for many like myself. I was able to shake hands and forge new alliances after previous primaries and generals, but not this time. I simply don't want to be around people capable of spreading idiocy like that for purely political purposes. A lot of people dropped their masks this time around. Not pretty.

Speaking of, I think they are actually having a meltdown at TOP. The covert Russian agents now seem to include "Trump's women" (odd terminology for such a feminist enclave), the FBI, Comey, the GOP, Mitch McConnell and who knows who else. They want the electoral college to overturn the Russian "coup".

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" “Human kindness has never weakened the stamina or softened the fiber of a free people. A nation does not have to be cruel to be tough.” FDR "

Strife Delivery's picture

I apologize if I add a few sentences or paragraphs to this essay. This was mostly a stream of consciousness piece from me, and now that it is finished, I'm finding extra bits I want to add to it.

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riverlover's picture

I got stuck in the wrong pigeonhole, voted for Bernie in the primaries in NY and DemExited in July to Green. Just got my first-ever voter card saying Green which I have lost. Already. AFAIK, I am the sole voter for Stein in my nuclear family. Boxing up some supplies for Standing Rock, and sending a lichen from me. Everyone else in my family seems to be disconnected to that.

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Hey! my dear friends or soon-to-be's, JtC could use the donations to keep this site functioning for those of us who can still see the life preserver or flotsam in the water.

Steven D's picture

Except I don't accept an outdated and divisive category like white and black races that was created by slaveholders to justify the subjection and oppression of People they held in bondage.

I'm bisexual with some gender identity fluidity (i.e., some traits I identify as feminine, others as masculine).

I''m married to a woman of Japanese descent, and w have two "Hapa" children that is children with one parent or East Asian heritage and one of Euro, African or other cultural heritages.

I used to be a lawyer.

I also used to be a dishwasher, cab driver and counselor at a residential facility for emotional disturbed adolescents in the jargon of the early 80's.

I used to absuse recreational drugs. A load of them.

I am a writer.

I am disabled due to a chronic autoimmune disorder.

I suffer from mild depression (mild compared to people I know who suffer from more severe depression)

I'm a senior citizen as my age is 60.

I am a caregiver for a cancer survivor and TBI sufferer (my spouse)

Not one of these aspects of my life define me in and of itself.

All that I do and have done define me, and thus I am a work in progress, as is every other human being on this planet.

Thank you for your essay.

Steve

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"You can't just leave those who created the problem in charge of the solution."---Tyree Scott

Except I don't accept an outdated and divisive category like white and black races that was created by slaveholders to justify the subjection and oppression of People they held in bondage..

The problem here is that societies have always made these types of distinctions, in part, for the purposes of social cohesion.

To the Greeks, for example, simply because someone was a barbaros didn't mean that they were better or worse morally or intellectually...it did mean they were different...now somewhere down the line, the meaning of barbaros does get shaded into implying a moral or intellectual superiority (or inferiority, for that matter) and that's where it begins to get problematic.

I still remember how enraged I was when I first learned of the emic and etic concepts in anthropology

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emic_and_etic

I mean, how dare someone impose on me a view of myself or even an identification and a set of characteristics that has little or nothing to do with me, IMO.

I get the anger but, at some point, I have to accept the world as it is and take from there; the world at large does make these judgments every day

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Hawkfish's picture

In spite of that, I voted for a Jewish woman and a black Vietnam vet. Clearly I need to go to a reeducation camp.

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We can’t save the world by playing by the rules, because the rules have to be changed.
- Greta Thunberg

CalvinV's picture

Evil divisive stuff to distract the 99% from realizing that they're all in the same sinking boat

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I get it. Identity politics is ridiculous to the discerning eye. So where do you go? You say independent; you voted green (so did I).

This election reminds me of 1992 when the same class of people pissed off now were pissed off then and elevated Ross Perot to presidential timber. Perot was sidelined by the media back then as Trump was NOT now(He couldn't be because he pawns the media). Perot was in the debates between Bush and Bush II (Clinton I). Trump has been running for President since 1988 (officially or not). No one talks about this; Trump has been studying presidential politics since 1988, including the billionaire Perot's run in 1992. He gets it. He knows.

So enough about identity politics. It's a loser. [And I'm a total outsider, whatever, believe me.]

I believe in a military only for defense of our (USA) borders. I believe in legal drugs, all drugs. These two policies would transform our country.

If I was a robot republican I would sign off as: A Patriot.

Done

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PriceRip's picture

In 2008, I was too young to vote.

          So, obviously you are irresponsible, and think society owes you everything on a silver platter.

          I love how those that employ the ugliness that is Identity Politics have such a profound understanding of the inner thoughts and desires of those they attack. I wish I could be so gifted in the psychic arts.

          Strife Delivery, I thank you for your very well thought out and well written article. I hope to see many more · · ·

[video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QhEaHcQgyLs]

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Strife Delivery's picture

I was 17 that November, a senior in high school. I hadn't dived that deep into politics, a more superficial understanding than I have today at the ripe old age of 25.

I've grown more comfortable writing essays here at C99. Really, it's the only place I've penned essays, especially of a political nature.

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. A homeless, scared, white male will never know the level of oppression that Oprah will know.

If that "homeless, scared, white male" had Oprah's money, I'm willing to bet that he would be allowed into every fancy store and boutique (depending on their policies), no questions asked...that has not been Oprah's experience.

Personally, I don't think that "individuals" do the oppressing; I think that it's built into systems...

We actually aren't as far apart as you might think, Strife Delivery; I too have had to strive for my own individuality against and a society and a system that wants to place me (black and gay) into all sorts of boxes and round holes.

In fact, I can say that the frustration that you feel is, in part, what various minority groups have experienced and, speaking for myself, I know that it makes me angry.

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I mean, if that homeless, white male had a choice: stay as a white male, homeless, hungry, scared and desperate, or be someone like Oprah, who has a net worth of around 3 billion dollars while being a black woman that sometimes gets turned away from boutique stores in foreign countries that you can fly to on your own private jet... The point is that example just seems dismissive.

If he had Oprah's money, god...If I had Oprah's money, or you, or divide that up by 100 people (that's 30 million a piece). This homeless white male isn't getting into those boutique stores, an individual who probably has multiple layers of dirty, torn clothes. Hell, that homeless white male isn't even getting near her show (does she still have a show? I can't remember) Your example really plays up the type of tone deaf language of our current atmosphere. That a billionaire black woman faces levels of oppression because she is turned away from boutique stores in foreign countries that a homeless white male who is starving, without medical care, and without heat will ever experience. If you want to talk about the differences in experience between....what....Bill Gates? and Oprah, two billionaires separated by race and gender, sure, at least we equalized class more.

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He's not old enough to vote, but his perspective on this election was pretty good. We are your typical white suburb family. But we live in an area that is probably 75-25 white/black and most of the youth don't care about the past. To them, they are all people. Trump was an idiot. But when Hillary started to play race to pick off votes, the youth hated that. Sure, the older Americans looking at life in the '50s and '60s could relate, be the youth of today can't. In my son's High School, the first chair tuba is an African-American, my son is second. You should hear them play! To have someone tell them that race is a reason to vote offends both of them.

It was obvious she only did that to get elected. Not because she has been part of any community in the last 8 years actually work with the people. If she had been, she would know that the people of all color and walks of life care about each other. It is just Washington that doesn't. All she did was divide us up by peoples so she could pick who she thought she could votes from. Quite sick. And the youth saw right through it and wanted nothing to do with her.

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He's not old enough to vote, but his perspective on this election was pretty good. We are your typical white suburb family. But we live in an area that is probably 75-25 white/black and most of the youth don't care about the past. To them, they are all people. Trump was an idiot. But when Hillary started to play race to pick off votes, the youth hated that. Sure, the older Americans looking at life in the '50s and '60s could relate, be the youth of today can't. In my son's High School, the first chair tuba is an African-American, my son is second. You should hear them play! To have someone tell them that race is a reason to vote offends both of them.

It was obvious she only did that to get elected. Not because she has been part of any community in the last 8 years actually work with the people. If she had been, she would know that the people of all color and walks of life care about each other. It is just Washington that doesn't. All she did was divide us up by peoples so she could pick who she thought she could votes from. Quite sick. And the youth saw right through it and wanted nothing to do with her.

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