Money, Power, Respect

I wanted to share something I've been thinking about.

One way to refer to it would be "having it all."

Start with a basic question. What are the most basic forms of social prestige or recognition, in our modern world?

Money, of course, would have to be one, and depending on your way of analyzing modern society, it could well be the only one. I'm not persuaded, however, that everything is sociologically reducible to money. For example, power (i.e. political or institutional power, which is ultimately based on fear) would be another key form of social prestige, one that historically tracks with money but can diverge from its orbit in certain circumstances.

And then we have what Aretha Franklin would call R-E-S-P-E-C-T. One can be loved, praised, honored, etc., while not having much in the way of money or power. Gaining the respect of others is for many a highly prized aspect of social life. One could, I suppose, call respect a form of "social capital," but it seems to me that respect is a larger category, as social capital is usually described as an ability to convert the social network of relationships into money, much in the way Donald Trump could emerge unscathed from his many bankruptcies.

Okay, so that's my idea. Social life revolves around the possession or loss of Money, Power, and Respect. And here's my little sociological thesis: it's tough, very tough, to have all three in abundance.

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Part of what got me thinking about this is the recent release of Hillary's and Bernie's tax returns. While no one would say that Bernie's income is inadequate, it pales in comparison to the eye-popping .1% income of the Clintons, where a single, one-hour speech netted Hillary more income than what Bernie made over the whole year.

Clearly, Hillary Clinton has money--a lot of it. Clearly, she has power--she is at the very center of the Washington political establishment. But does she have respect? I suppose one can argue that the votes she has racked up thus far and "most admired woman" polls may show that, but at the same time her unfavorability ratings, which are hovering in the mid-50s, are historically bad for a presidential candidate. I am sure Hillary can always find a group of people who will applaud her and say nice things about her. But then there's this:

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Here's the thing. I think a lot of those Third Way/DLC types want to "have it all," and while they've grabbed the Money and the Power, the Respect has never quite stuck. That image of HRC's motorcade showered with dollar bills is just devastating, because it is a true image of the nature of her campaign and indeed of her political career. It's one thing for a politician to screw over the people he or she governs, but it is something else for that politician to do that and to demand your everlasting respect as well. The breathless repetition of Hillary's "fighting" for this or that group of everyday people is, at the root, a demand for respect. The endless search by Hillary supporters for statements to be offended by is also driven by a suspicion of insufficient respect. But is it, in the end, possible to be fantastically rich AND powerful AND respected? I wouldn't say it is an empty category (FDR?), but it would seem to be vanishingly small.

As for Bernie, he hasn't cashed in on his years in Washington, as he could have done many times over. He's not starving by any means, but he did pass up on the BIG money, making him, as he put it, "one of the poorer members of the United States Senate." And the end result is this:

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RESPECT.

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detroitmechworks's picture

In your political career you can have, Power, Respect, or Money. But you only get to pick 2.

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I do not pretend I know what I do not know.

Bob Phillips's picture

Boss, he famously riffed on that line. Followed by stating "Dick Daley never took a nickel."

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riverlover's picture

And that rating must involve external reinforcement. I have a small circle of friends/acquaintances, I think I have respect. At one time in my life I had money (and the only reflection of that is from others?). Power eluded me, but I never chased that.

So maybe 2/3 or 1/3 for me. How about others?

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darkmatter's picture

...then some have more to hand out than others.

There's a famous story told by the great Hungarian pianist/composer Franz Liszt. Liszt was about eleven years old, and his piano teacher, after some wrangling, managed to arrange a meeting with Beethoven (who was fairly deaf by this point, but who could follow piano performances visually and through the vibrations on the instrument).

As Liszt recounted, he played for Beethoven a fugue from Bach's Well-Tempered Clavier. Beethoven asked the boy if he could, on the spot, transpose the same fugue into a different key. Liszt did so. He then asked to play one of Beethoven's own pieces, and after completing that, Beethoven's gloomy face lit up and he said to the child, "You are one of the lucky ones! It will be your destiny to bring joy and delight to many people, and that is the greatest happiness one can achieve." In recounting this story to his friend years later, Liszt said, "This was the proudest moment in my life." And who can doubt him? In this case, the respect of one lone individual weighed more than the acclaim of many thousands.

That is why I imagine that the criticism of the activist/progressives has to rankle Third-Way/DLC types more than stupid criticism from the right wing. Who the eff cares if some racist, know-nothing right-winger says mean things about you? They have such pitifully little respect of their own to draw from that their criticism doesn't sting. But what if you are criticized from the left as being complicit in the very things you say you are against? I suspect the corporate/Wall St. Democrats loathe the left more than the right for this reason.

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Haikukitty's picture

And while I'm certainly comfortable compared to so many in the world, I've never really had money, but I think I have the respect of my friends and family. And honestly, that's most important to me.

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Alison Wunderland's picture

and seen a psychopath? No? Thought not. That's why you'll never "get it."

I've never understood the draw of power.

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darkmatter's picture

...is why you would be the ideal person to run for office.

Sort of the Cincinnatus effect.

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Bollox Ref's picture

My father always jokes that the last person you want to vote for is a politician.

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Gëzuar!!
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riverlover's picture

as the Reluctant President? He may not be so, but I do not think he started this challenge to Hillary as anything more than a shake-up, a reminder that DLC is not the end. I think he's delighted, shows in his smiles. But he will always be a leader who does not want that mantle. IMO.

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SnappleBC's picture

In my regular life I'm one of those natural born leader types. I just tend to find myself in leadership positions in an awful lot of situations. Not only that but it's worth pointing out that the influence a good person can wield when in a position of power is much greater than that of someone among the "troops". "Power" is a potent tool and I like wielding it.

But here's something I've said about leaders for a long time. There are two types of leaders. Those who are drawn to control and those who are drawn to responsibility. The former is highly negative and the latter the type of person we all have met at some point or another... someone we remember fondly as a great leader/boss/whatever.

Hillary wants control. Sanders wants responsibility.

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mimi's picture

but I do self-respect myself. That's ok, right?

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Bollox Ref's picture

But she strikes me as a person who doesn't have the capacity for simple, long term happiness.

The Presidency won't provide it either.

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Gëzuar!!
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rezolution's picture

I think she went beyond the reach of happiness long ago. She may have plenty of power; we'll see about that.

As for respect, if she somehow gets in the WH, when it's all over with she will end up with significantly less respect than Richard Nixon.

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featheredsprite's picture

And affection from those who are important to me.

I am a wealthy woman.

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snoopydawg's picture

Bills that hurt people. Bills like welfare reform, the crime bill, nafta and deregulation of the banks that set it up for people to lose their homes and pensions.
Then there's her and Bill's foreign policies that have created countless deaths, destruction and millions of refugees.
There's no way I can explain my revulsion of both of them and everyone in our government who has voted for military interventions for over a century.

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Which AIPAC/MIC/pharma/bank bought politician are you going to vote for? Don’t be surprised when nothing changes.

Lookout's picture

I think it was Gladstone that said, "The ultimate use of power is to empower others."

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WindDancer13's picture

respect HRC by naming her the "most admired woman" in the world. However, I recently stumbled upon the Gallup Poll that proclaimed this and discovered that the poll only questioned 892 people. I didn't delve further at the time, but I suspect that this was an open ended question (fill in the blank type). The Clinton name has a lot of recognition so it is not really a surprise that HRC would be the name that would come up most often. The sampling size is way too small to get any kind of accurate response.

I do not think this denotes respect.

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darkmatter's picture

I suspected as much. Thanks for the info.

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Martha Pearce-Smith's picture

back down...

Money is either stolen or earned...

Respect can ONLY be earned....

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gulfgal98's picture

The most important thing to me is my credibility (integrity). I was often surprised at how many people, particularly those in the higher up positions, who had trouble comprehending that concept. The way I look at it is that I am the only person who has to live with me 24/7 and I want to have respect for that person. As far as money, I have only wanted what I really need to live and I have never had a need for power other than the power to make my own decisions.

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I used to tell my people, "Do this as if you would sign your name to it." "This piece of work is a piece of you that's going to be standing here for 50 years." "Would you point to this building as you were passing by and tell your kids, 'I worked on that one.' with pride?"

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