Open Thread - The Word Edition - Friday, August 12, 2016

Words are singularly the most powerful force available to humanity. We can choose to use this force constructively with words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair. Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble.
~Yehuda Berg~

Words Matter: What the Language We Use Tells Us About Our Current Political Landscape

“Sticks and stones can break my bones but words can never harm me.”

A fine sentiment, but any child subjected to cyber bullying knows that words do indeed matter.

Language evolves. Sometimes a word that once was negative becomes positive, like “terrific” which originally meant terrifying. Sometimes a word that was once positive becomes negative, as when “awful” changes from awe inspiring to very bad.

In politics too words matter, and in politics too language evolves. In the last 50 years we have witnessed a politically motivated sea change in the meaning of old words and the introduction of new words, all intended to undermine our sense of compassion.

Top 374 keywords the U.S. government monitors

Three months ago, a list of keywords was released by the Dept. for Homeland Security after the Electronic Privacy Information Center (EPIC) sued the government for withholding the document.

The story has stirred up again by a couple of recent media reports have gotten the social networks sharing the media reports like wildfire.

This got me thinking.

The U.S. government may not be monitoring everything you say on social media sites, it monitors hundreds of seemingly obvious keywords every minute of the day --- and some that are just plain bizarre.

The 39-page "2011 Analyst's Desktop Binder", emblazoned with the Homeland Security seal, dedicates four pages to words ranging from weather terms and cyber security to "south-west border" words and health related terms.

The Most Popular Swear Words on Facebook

Someday, when aliens are sifting through Facebook data to find out what 21st-century humans thought and cared about, they’re going to see a lot of shit. That’s the most popular swear word on Facebook, according to an analysis Slate conducted using a new Facebook developer tool that estimates the number of user interactions (including public or private status updates, photo captions, and comments) that mention a word or phrase, and then breaks up the results by gender, age group, and region. In the three-day period queried, shit appeared in 10.5 million U.S. Facebook interactions, fuck in 9.5 million, damn in 6.3 million, bitch in 4.5 million, and crap in 2 million.

After these top five, male users and female users split. Perhaps in an effort to assert their heterosexuality, male users use fag more often than female users, and the homophobic slang appears in more than twice as many male interactions as female interactions. Pussy and dick are also more common among male users, while cock is more popular among females. Darn has the biggest gender gap, coming in at No. 8 for females and No. 13 for males. Douche is last out of the words examined, with 54,000 mentions over the three-day period, though slut outranks it among female users.

The “Magic Words”

They're Not Just for Children
We learned them as children, but no mater your age these essential words are effortless to say and convey a wealth of meaning to others. They have a powerful ability to create positive interactions, so look for opportunities to use them every day.

“Please”

Using “please” expresses both respect and consideration for those with whom we’re interacting because it changes a command into a request. It sets the tone for whatever follows and is one of most important universal manners.

“Thank You” and “You’re Welcome”

Most people know to express their thanks for gifts, favors, awards, and the like. But we sometimes fail to recognize and show appreciation for the everyday courtesies that come our way, such as when someone holds the door or lets us go ahead in line. Expressing thanks for these little services is a hallmark of civility.

When someone says, “thank you,” the best response is, “you’re welcome.” Don’t be bashful—accept the credit for your kindness. It’s subtle, but an “it was nothing” is actually saying that you place no value on what you did. By accepting thanks graciously you can also encourage the “thank-you” habit.

“Excuse Me”

“Excuse me,” “pardon me,” and “I beg your pardon” all express your awareness that you’ve inconvenienced someone else. Make it a habit to excuse yourself whenever you do the following:

  • Make a necessary interruption: “Excuse me, but you have a phone call.”
  • Make a request: “Excuse me, but this is the non-smoking section.”
  • Acknowledge an error: “Excuse me. I didn’t realize that you were already waiting in line.”
  • Acknowledge a faux pas, such as burping: “Excuse me.”
  • Leave a conversation: “Excuse me, I wish I could chat longer, but I have to leave now.”
  • Get up from the table: “Please excuse me.”

“I’m Sorry”

Making and accepting apologies gracefully are acts of courtesy and maturity, and they are important for matters both big and small. Sincere apologies can defuse volatile situations; it’s hard for most people to remain angry with someone who takes responsibility for his own actions. “I’m sorry” is also one of the simplest and often kindest ways to express sympathy or regret. A job loss, an illness, a death in the family, or the loss of a pet are all times when you might say sorry. At these times, keep it simple—you don’t need to elaborate if you aren’t sure what else to say.

Thanks for stopping by. Have a great funking weekend! Word.

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MarilynW's picture

cannot be said enough but don't say "I'm sorry" more than once. According to this the apology is diminished by repetition. I no longer think that this is an important rule.

Recently we drove by a traffic sign on the small island where we took our vacation, "Slow down, children's lives matter." We were all annoyed by it and I am not sure why. Was it the use of a politically charged phrase or the self-righteous tone of the sign?

An British exchange instructor asks the students "are you alright?" in place of our "how are you?" and people are taken aback.

Thank you, Tim

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To thine own self be true.

riverlover's picture

It said (large letters) "Slow children playing". We always had a titter about that.

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Hey! my dear friends or soon-to-be's, JtC could use the donations to keep this site functioning for those of us who can still see the life preserver or flotsam in the water.

Missing a colon is no fun.

The sign probably would have been safer, both from a punctuation standpoint and a motor safety standpoint, if it had used an image symbol for "children playing" under the word SLOW.

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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. - Friedrich Nietzsche -

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is at the end of a main street. Sign just before cemetery entrance used to be "Dead End". After years of complaints the sign was replaced with " No Outlet", so I guess they have no electricity there.

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There is no such thing as TMI. It can always be held in reserve for extortion.

NCTim's picture

"Those poor children."

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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. - Friedrich Nietzsche -

dervish's picture

That had a sign that read "People below don't throw stones".

I always thought "Well, yeah, maybe, but what about the people above"?

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"Obama promised transparency, but Assange is the one who brought it."

dervish's picture

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"Obama promised transparency, but Assange is the one who brought it."

NCTim's picture

apologizing.

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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. - Friedrich Nietzsche -

janis b's picture

and sincerity. It also helps when the other is open and forgiving.

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Many thoughts are in the form of words. I imagine the relationship is reciprocal, with thoughts influencing how we use words and words influencing how we think. How we think, in turn, impacts what we say and do.

The French place importance on languages, especially the French language. Languages are mentioned in the French Constitution. Also...

The Académie française was established in 1635 to act as the official authority on the usages, vocabulary, and grammar of the French language, and to publish an official dictionary of the French language. Its recommendations however carry no legal power and are sometimes disregarded even by governmental authorities. In recent years the Académie has tried to prevent the Anglicisation of the French language.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Language_policy_in_France

American dictionaries, on the other hand, do not seek to be the final word on words. Rather, they seek to record how Americans are currently using words. This is good for business because it necessitates new editions every few years. However, now that dictionaries, like everything else involving words and images, are online, I'm not sure how Webster's is getting rich on its editions of definitions.

As important as words are, communication is more important. To communicate with each other, we need at least some degree of common understanding as to the meaning of each word used in a conversation, or at least most words in that conversation. If you point out someone is misusing a word, though, you are likely to anger one or more people or get yourself mocked (imprecisely) as Grammar Police. So, if you call an acronym a "palindrome," I'm not going to say a word.
Wink

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NCTim's picture

This site has such interesting music

I worked for a French company, at one point the French were considering their own words for things like bit, byte and word.

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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. - Friedrich Nietzsche -

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To thine own self be true.

Almost paradoxically, though, romance languages are far more logical than our Germanic linguistic inheritance.

[video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mfz3kFNVopk]

[video:https://youtu.be/11lEtj-MuMk]

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janis b's picture

to find the word that most closely reflects what I am trying to say. Sometimes it takes time to find it, but the time spent is generally worthwhile for generating understanding. Sometimes the thesaurus is a great friend.

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Sometimes, that actually happens. Other times, whether I make an effort or settle depends entirely on my mood.

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OLinda's picture

Thank you, Tim, for the interesting Open Thread. Please excuse me now as I'm going to make coffee. Smile

Happy Friday!

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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. - Friedrich Nietzsche -

mimi's picture

in the New York Times Magazine that is long and according to people that I respect worth reading when you have the time.
FRACTURED LANDS: HOW THE ARAB WORLD CAME APART - BY SCOTT ANDERSON - PHOTOGRAPHS BY PAOLO PELLEGRIN
There are some images in it and I think that's the way it looked to those who drove into Fallujah. An interview with the author is running now on Democracy NOW. The author interviewed Gadhafi before the Iraq invasion and I just wished people would listen to "dictators" because they do sometimes have an insight that others don't have and just disregard, because you know ... it's a dictator.

Good Morning, NCTim. I like everything about your OT, though I only glanced over it so far.

Also, I had a dream this night and woke up telling myself that I have to give up fighting against my enslavement to the intertubes. I will be the slave for good, a status I have so little respect for. But helas, I am just one of them. Just have to face it and live with it. Sigh.

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Lookout's picture

looks like a good article.

Hello Tim and c99ers. Haven't thought about "magic words" in years, despite their regular use.

Hope everyone has a good Friday!

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“Until justice rolls down like water and righteousness like a mighty stream.”

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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. - Friedrich Nietzsche -

Hush, hush, baby don't believe a word...

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NCTim's picture

How the funk are you?

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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. - Friedrich Nietzsche -

my brother. How is it that you am?

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NCTim's picture

My ass is dragging. Indications are that we are in the home stretch. I am trying to pull off one more Pittsburgh run, to get Sweetie to her mom. During the coming months, I am expecting the change of seasons.

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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. - Friedrich Nietzsche -

stay strong. You have my utmost admiration. Peace to you and Sweetie.

Oh if the sky comes falling down,
For you, there's nothing in this world I wouldn't do.

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kharma's picture

I'll start:
Thank you for this essay you slutty cock. Sorry for the quick hit and run, but shit, I can't find my pussy cat or my dog, that bitch. Smile

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There is nothing which I dread so much as a division of the republic into two great parties.. This...is to be dreaded as the greatest political evil under our Constitution.--John Adams

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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. - Friedrich Nietzsche -

the 374 words the government monitors. Then we all could just randomly, haphazardly drop them into every post making sure they have no relevance to the rest of the post. One or two every line, singly or in combinations. Think how many people we'd put to work. We'd be Job Creators, though I don't expect our taxes to be cut.
(TM Rouser of Fine Rabble for Forty Years)

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There is no such thing as TMI. It can always be held in reserve for extortion.

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... there is a day devoted to using them.

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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. - Friedrich Nietzsche -

for the modern day Democratic [absorb and spit your mainstream automaton ass out] Party. Keep on thinking free, c99ers.

Your revolution
gets in the way of my confusion
I need someone to tell me who I am
To keep me under this illusion

"Mainstream Kid"

I'm gonna to fit in
I'm on the list
I'm gonna to get in
Haven't you heard
Don't you know who I am
I'm with the Joneses
I'm their best friend

I came to saturate the market
To perpetuate the hip kid
I was born so I could fall in line
I'm a legend in my own mind
Can I blend in with your kind?

I need you to liberate me
You the masses educate me
Hold my fist into the air
Declare a social victory

You can own me, you control me
Individuality has never stood a chance against you
Jump into the mainstream

Your revolution
gets in the way of my confusion
I need someone to tell me who I am
To keep me under this illusion

I came to separate the classes
To place the fails above the passes
And there has never been a better time to set the bar beneath the masses
Can I blend in with your kind?

I need you to liberate me
You the masses educate me
Hold my fist into the air
Declare a social victory

You can own me, you control me
Individuality has never stood a chance against you
Jump into the mainstream

I need you to liberate me
You the masses educate me
Hold my fist into the air
Declare a social victory

You can own me, you control me
Individuality has never stood a chance against you
Jump into the mainstream

Your revolution
Into the mainstream kid
Your revolution
Into the mainstream
Your revolution
Into the mainstream kid
Your revolution
Into the mainstream

Jump into the mainstream kid

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mimi's picture

it will kill us to jump our revolution into the mainstream.

We parents have lost out on our kids.

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mimi's picture

so please do.

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I will, just let me know. You can always have it unblocked later if you change your mind. It's not going to remove your footprint from here if that's what you're thinking.

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is becoming a lost art. Individualism is becoming obsolete. The borg hive hasn't assimilated us all yet.

I haven't lost out as long as I'm sucking air.

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mimi's picture

it helped me to free myself from TOP to get myself banned. It would help me to get my account closed here and be forced out of thinking aloud and commenting. It enslaves me and makes me very sick. All I am asking, please, to force me on lurker status.

I always read, I appreciate so much what some here write, I get sick about other things I read as well, I do not want to talk about it. I want to keep my thoughts to myself. In that sense I do not want to talk here anymore. I happen to not be able so far to master that on my own. I contemplate to shut myself off the internet, but that becomes already dangerous, because I need the communication to my son. Other than that, I don't want to be talking here anymore.

Just reading. I will never give that up.
Thank you so much for your understanding. And thank you to Joe, Steven D, gjohnsit and many other writers here. I really appreciate so much reading them. I just don't want to talk anymore.

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janis b's picture

mostly ; )

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bass line too.

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janis b's picture

Johnny Cakes.

Let me know when you get tired of 'Johnny Cakes'. 'Johnny Kick Ass' is not a bad substitute.

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be incorporated?

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shaharazade's picture

Johnny Cakes kicks ass? He does you know.

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janis b's picture

JC kicks ass?

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enhydra lutris's picture

should all frequently use those 374 words, and maybe encrypt some passages doing so. Heh.

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That, in its essence, is fascism--ownership of government by an individual, by a group, or by any other controlling private power. -- Franklin D. Roosevelt --

NCTim's picture

If the machine wants you, you are destined for the compost pile. Between police violence, corrupt prosectutors, domestic spying, authoritarian assholes, laws written by corporations, fascination with incarceration, punitive social practices, ,,, If it is you turn in the barrel, you're funked.

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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. - Friedrich Nietzsche -

riverlover's picture

for us undesirables, so it might be compost barrel, GITMO, odd suicide. What ever happened to concrete overshoes? No over shoes and concrete prices too steep?

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Hey! my dear friends or soon-to-be's, JtC could use the donations to keep this site functioning for those of us who can still see the life preserver or flotsam in the water.

by the way you build your themes, NCTim. Please continue. Thank you.

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skod's picture

from Adrian Belew, with Robert Fripp sitting on his stool smiling inscrutably, Bill Bruford during his hybrid Simmons/boobam/rototom phase, and Tony Levin playing the immortal Stick line that has since become the first etude for every new wannabe Stick player...

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hecate's picture

Good stuff. From the Alternet piece:

For almost 700 years the word ["liberal"] meant generous, selfless, noble, tolerant. When the word began to describe a political philosophy it mostly retained its original meaning. According to the Oxford English Dictionary, aside from being "broadminded" a liberal is someone "favoring political reform tending toward democracy and personal freedom for the individual."

And then the 1960s happened. The Great Society, and civil rights legislation, spawned a change in the definition of liberal. We began to hear the phrase "bleeding heart liberal" to describe someone excessively softhearted . . . .

Within 20 years the word "liberal" had been demonized. Long-time Chicago based columnist Mike Royko wondered why the term had become so negative if the major criticism of it was that a liberal was too compassionate. He thought the reason was racism. "So I learned that in Chicago, as in many parts of the South and other big cities, the word liberal has one basic, simple definition. It’s just another word for "nigger lover,'" Royko concluded . . . .

The assault on the word "liberal" hit its peak in 1988 during the Dukakis-Bush Presidential campaigns. Coming out of the Democratic convention in late August Michael Dukakis was 10-15 points ahead in the polls. An aggressive campaign orchestrated by Lee Atwater and Roger Ailes attacked Dukakis as a "card carrying liberal," evoking language used by Senator McCarthy in his attacks on leftists as Communists. A highlight of the campaign was a series of ads about Willie Horton, a black man who while on furlough under a program begun when Dukakis was Governor of Massachusetts had raped and killed a white woman.

The strategy paid off. Late in the Dukakis campaign Royko reflected, "Republicans have used [the word liberal] like cops beating a confession out of a suspect. Admit it, Mike Dukakis, you are guilty of being a liberal. Confess, confess." And noted, "Dukakis, who started in the primaries saying he was a liberal, now grimaces when he hears it and says he's not a complete liberal after all."

Always thought it odd, that once the racists had damaged "liberal," lefties settled on "progressive" . . . since the original progressives were glow-in-the-dark racists, favoring eugenics, Jim Crow, immigration strangulation, and unceasing overseas imperial rampages against people with melanin.

More Alternet:

For many of the same reasons the term liberal, once so positive became so negative, the word "welfare" once so positive it was included in the preamble to the U.S. Constitution became a blasphemy.

When FDR promoted the idea that we must collectively accept responsibility for helping those in need the term "welfare" had admirable connotations. Tellingly, the first federal welfare program, Aid to Dependent Children, was part of the aptly named Social Security Act of 1935. But welfare was done in by one of the same forces that did in liberal: racism.

Under President Reagan, who famously campaigned against "welfare queens," the federal government financially penalized states that gave welfare to ineligible families. As if to underline the objective of the initiative, no financial penalties were imposed on states that did not offer assistance to eligible families! . . . .

The word welfare, like the word liberal, had become lethal. A 2006 poll by the National Opinion Research Center reveals how much words matter. More than 65 percent of those surveyed thought government spends "too little" on "assistance to the poor." But when the phrase "assistance to the poor" was replaced with "welfare" only 20 percent thought the government spent "too little" while 46 percent said it spent "too much."

William Burroughs famously observed that language is a virus. I have never understood why the people in the politics don't use that as an excuse, when they "mis-speak": "I was laid low by a virus."

In face-to-face communication, some 80% of your message is transmitted non-verbally. This means that, when you are in a tube, some 4/5ths of what you seek to get across, is not going to travel.

Then there is the fact that the word only dimly reflects the ideal, and neither truly exist.

"I have this beetle here in one hand," Aristotle proclaimed one day, "with a single oval shell and eight jointed legs, and I have here in my other hand this second beetle of lighter hue which has twelve legs and a shell that is longer and segmented. Can you explain the differences?"

"Yes," said Plato. "There is no such thing as a beetle, in either of your hands. There is no such thing as your hand. What you think of as a beetle and a hand are merely reflections of your recognition of the idea of a beetle and a hand. There is only the idea, which existed before these specimens came into being. Otherwise, how could they come into being? And the form of the idea, of course, is always eternal and real, and never changes. What you are holding in what you think are your hands are shadows of that idea. Have you forgotten my illustration of the cave in my Republic? Read it once more. That the two beetles you have are different is clear enough proof that neither is real. It therefore follows that only the form or the idea of the form is susceptible to study, and it is something about which we will never be able to learn more than we already know. Ideas alone are worth contemplating. You are not real, my vain young Aristotle. I'm not real. Socrates himself was but an imitation of himself. All of us are merely inferior copies of the form that is us. I know you understand me."

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enhydra lutris's picture

by self-styled liberals, checkbook liberals, & "white liberals", who had no use for the left, and, to tell the truth, minorities in their neighborhoods & schools.

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That, in its essence, is fascism--ownership of government by an individual, by a group, or by any other controlling private power. -- Franklin D. Roosevelt --

hecate's picture

we all disdained "liberal," back in the day, preferring to identify as "radical" instead. But, in the larger culture, "liberal" was damaged just as the Alternet piece describes. And the shift to "progressive," that was sheer duncecapness.

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hecate's picture

I forgot to link the source. That's Joseph Heller, Picture This. Wonderful book.

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janis b's picture

Here's a link to a free download.
http://www.young-adult-books.com/novel/Picture-This-8890

I'll look into it soon as I finish my current book ... Season of Migration to the North by Tayeb Salih.

It was reviewed by Brecht, my favourite reviewer, who posts at the other place. The novel is deeply poetic and illuminating.

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Dragonkat's picture

Things I do when I'm bored, I like to play with a word counter on occasion, in this case I plugged Hill's DNC speech into it.

Top 10 words.

people 36 (0.7%)
us 31 (0.6%)
will 28 (0.5%)
just 25 (0.5%)
america 23 (0.4%)
country 23 (0.4%)
president 20 (0.4%)
trump 20 (0.4%)
me 20 (0.4%)
because 19 (0.4%)
believe 19 (0.4%)

Not sure what it says that me and Trump are tied, but I get the feeling there's a joke in there somewhere, or a jab at which one is the lesser evil.

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See, their morals, their code... it's a bad joke. Dropped at the first sign of trouble. They're only as good as the world allows them to be.

-The Joker-

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That, in its essence, is fascism--ownership of government by an individual, by a group, or by any other controlling private power. -- Franklin D. Roosevelt --

Anja Geitz's picture

I've always been fascinated by the words other languages use to express affection.

Especially endearments.

When I went to school for a summer in Florence, I lived with a family and noticed with some amusement that Signore Martelli lovingly called his wife a little onion (cipollina) and his daughter a little strawberry (fragolina).

In a country where food is such an integral part of enjoyment, it made sense it was reflected in their language and what they loved best.

Each other Smile

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There is always Music amongst the trees in the Garden, but our hearts must be very quiet to hear it. ~ Minnie Aumonier

shaharazade's picture

Some other words about words.

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