I can't explain this to my son (Update)
About to take my adult son over to get tested for "Drugs." It's part of a on the job training program he was accepted into for people with severe neurological disabilities. He only takes gummy vitamin D and marijuana tincture that helps his anxieties due to autism.
He will not be able to partake in this great OJT opportunity. He was to be their "star intern". But we are going along and will do the pee test today. Oh, did I mention how my son has issues with public bathrooms and urinating on demand?... So today he is all wigged out. Because the law says he must get drug tested in order to learn how to stock supply carts in a hospital setting. We know the end result will be a big, fat NO. But we are going through it anyways because we are trying to fight "The Stupid". But it's the law...
The laws says.
The LAW says that my medical marijuana dispensary can only sell low dose edibles - like 15mgs in a sea salt caramel. We can only sell you ONE a day. Which is extremely silly because it's such a small amount when compared to the amount in flower that we can sell up to 7 grams to recreational users. Meaning people without a medical marijuana card. It's the law.
One sea salt caramel per day.
Wesley is having a set back on getting his OMMP card because of red tape. It's been weeks since the state and the county have handed over to OHSA his diagnostics.
But you can only buy ONE sea salt caramel per day.
Wesley can't get a driver's license due to his disability.
One CBD taffy nugget per day.
But the laws says Wesley, today, could walk over to Wal Mart and buy a fucking gun. Two, even.
Got that America?
Does it make any damn sense?
EDIT: adding photos
When he was accepted as #1 intern. Pride. Dignity. Confidence.
Today outside the Lab. Sad. Shame. ...
Update
From Wesley:
He read every single comment in here and he was relieved that while reading them he "kinda quit shaking." "So that is a good thing."
He also said that he doesn't like the photo taken today and it was kinda embarrassed by it because it's not a good picture of him and I offered to remove it but he sees how it's "big time difference in how I feel." So it's okay to leave it up. For now. That might change.
The Foundation (not being named because they are still trying to do good and still hoping something happens) said there is another OJT program but it's 2 hrs away and it's at a hotel that doesn't require testing and that this has made many people mad and they are on the look out for new jobs, interviews and opportunities for Wesley and young people like him.
And he said... it's "been a bad week, the Sharks lost to the Penguins, a horrible shooting that killed a lot of people. Mr. Hockey and Mr. Ali died. It's been sad. Today was just a day."
And... "tell them I'm okay. I'm a good person."
Comments
MJ Laws Are Insane.
At that low dose, it probably has less of an effect than Ritalin. And half the kids in the country are on that. But Big Pharma gets a piece of the action, so it's all good.
MJ laws all started out as punishment/control of the hippies and anti-war activists (60s/70s). Then I guess they figured out it was a perfect way to keep the Prison Industrial Complex beds to full capacity. So here we are with it still classified the same as Heroin.
Thank the aholes in congress, both parties.
I hope they give Wesley the job and he does become the "star intern".
Donnie The #ShitHole Douchebag. Fake Friend to the Working Class. Real Asshole.
I've read that MJ laws
were mainly aimed at blacks since cannabis use was common in the jazz community back in the day. What better way to bust folks you don't like? Reefer Madness came out in 1936. There should be no reason to treat cannabis or even other drug use as a criminal issue -- if someone has problems with abuse, get them into treatment just like for alcohol. But if someone likes to light up once in a while, or they use a cream or tincture or munch on a brownie, no BFD, just like someone having a beer or two at the ball game or backyard barbecue.
Yep, you are right it. It was blacks and Mexicans...
Both groups were used as scapegoats back when Harry Anslinger and Hearst et. al went after cannabis initially, but there true motive was profit related.
I am currently working on a book on this subject (Tenatively titled "Demonized: The real history of Cannabis and it's prohibition.") but could probably throw together a mid-length essay on here about it.
I was going to do so at GOS, but I haven't been back there in I don't even know how long and certainly have no intention currently to go there at all either unless it is to gloat or mock them
"I used to vote Republican & Democrat, I also used to shit my pants. Eventually I got smart enough to stop doing both things." -Me
IIRC, it had a lot to do with eliminating...
hemp ropes, paper and cloth as opposed to Hearst's holdings in timber. (That is of course what is often dismissed as "Conspiracy Theory", but the profits are too great to be anything but organized crime perpetrated by government, IMHO)
I do not pretend I know what I do not know.
That was indeed a big part of it, Including rope...
Hearst had massive lumber interests and also owned many newspapers.
Hemp paper was poised to surpass Tree Pulp paper because it was both more durable to use and cheaper, but it could also be cheaply recycled and used again without requiring large amounts of dangerous and expensive chemicals.
Which brings us to Du Pont, who had a massive investment in the petrochemical biz had a vested interest in keeping it illegal because not only could Hemp Seed oil be used to make plastics, as well as paints and varnishes amongst many other products instead of petroleum. Hemp paper didn't require the chemicals used, which he manufactured and sold, that is needed to make tree pulp based paper.
Which brings us all the way back to rope, Hemp rope was vastly superior to nylon rope, particularly for use in marine environments, than Nylon, which he had just invented and was making a sizable investment in.
Same with Dacron, a far inferior artificial fabric to the popular Hemp fabric, which was used to make everything from Sail Cloth to Levi's. (hence the legend of Levi's famous durability).
It is a long tangled web, but as you unravel it at the center sits a handful of really rich assholes.
Kinda like now.
As a matter of fact, Rudolph Diesel assumed when he invented his engine that it would be powered off of Vegetable and Seed oils, not petroleum!
"I used to vote Republican & Democrat, I also used to shit my pants. Eventually I got smart enough to stop doing both things." -Me
Thank you CoE
Wes does very well with logic. Usually. This is so illogical it's not explainable. It's just wrong.
We have people on this site demanding they have gun rights to buy as many guns as they can because that's "freedom" and "fair".... what my son is going through just to get on the job training while being denied a medical card.... is just insane.
Thank you. He is not ready to read the comments just yet. We went and got F-Zero-X game cartridge used at a game store and he's checking it out. But he will be reading the comments. He used to do that in GOS.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Surely Not This Site?
Bernie is a win-win.
I have no mouth, and I must scream.
If "you" are an involuntary inmate in an asylum (1960s oregon), then nothing "you" do proves "you" should be released.
I cried as I read your accounting, because frustration is still strong in my very being. Getting trapped in a bureaucratic labyrinth of "logic" is a special kind of hell. I was so happy to have discovered the likes of Harlan Ellison, and Ken Kesey at just the right moment. Being able to externalize my thoughts, and anxieties was so refreshing, and therapeutic.
Thank you PriceRip
Frustrated... that's the word of the day. He tried so hard to be brave. But there is no running water in the "bathroom" they provide so as not to water down the UA. He was so embarrassed. And it was a pretty woman who had to take him to the bath stall, too. He was just mortified.
His face started to crack with tears at the very end. While he awaited the documentation that he had been there.
Thank you, he will come in later and read the comments as I asked if I could write this first. I never write about either kid without their permission.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Dude, this fuckin' sucks!
I am so sorry you and your son are having to go through this! Fucking government really is backwards, isn't it? Like you said in another comment yesterday, I can walk into Walmart right now and buy any goddamned gun I want, but GOD FORBID anybody have more than one CBD seal salt caramel per day.
That is really pathetic, especially because you don't get stoned on CBD shit. I know this from experience. I'm now wondering if Colorado has the same laws Washington does? Because I'm pretty sure you can buy more than one edible at a time in Colorado, or at least you could. I've done it myself, but I know they've tightened up the edible stuff since I left. (Something about doses in the candy that weren't always consistent, and then some dude jumped from a building because he took too much of it, supposedly. I'm not sure I believe that -- I think he was on something else.)
If weed is legal in your state, you shouldn't be tested for marijuana. This should be a no-brainer but, lo, it is not. I hear the federal government is thinking of taking cannabis off the bad drug list with the DEA, which is excellent news. I don't know if it's true or just a rumor, but rumblings are better than nothin'.
Much love and many hugs to you, Janet. Hang tough and know that we're here for you!
I miss Colorado.
I hear some senator submitted a bill for it.
Back in November some unknown Senator submitted a bill on it.
He seems like a pretty cool guy.
"I used to vote Republican & Democrat, I also used to shit my pants. Eventually I got smart enough to stop doing both things." -Me
LOL! Holy crap, I totally forgot!
Obviously. LOL, I have been giggling about this for a few minutes now.
It's been a really long primary season, man.
I miss Colorado.
Glad I could give you a chuckle, FSM knows we could use em.
These are indeed dark times my friend...
But a little humor always lightens things up.
"I used to vote Republican & Democrat, I also used to shit my pants. Eventually I got smart enough to stop doing both things." -Me
laughter is medicinal
New Law: You can only laugh once a day. One time.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Stop leaking Clinton's emails!!!
She hates that shit...
"I used to vote Republican & Democrat, I also used to shit my pants. Eventually I got smart enough to stop doing both things." -Me
Hello Shiz! Thank you
It's just beyond unreal. He's worked so hard on so many levels and now for something as insane as this.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
As a Medical Cannabis user in a non medical state I can say
that the frustrations involved are both tiresome and ludicrous so I sympathize with you.
Right now I am dealing with the fact that I have given 2 choices. I can either:
A: Have a lower quality of life and stay off all medications but cannabis, which has lead to my current situation of having to temporarily suspend my business because I cannot rely on being able to either move or have slept the night before because of pain, and I just couldn't stand being unreliable to my clients and having to pass them to others was doing them a disservice.
or
B: go back to taking 14 different pharmacuticals a day, including Oxy every 4-6 hours and Dilauded every 10-12 hours as well as a wide variety of anti-spasmatics, anti-seizure meds, etc. etc. etc.
Because option C: Continue to use medical cannabis and have something stronger but still more mild than the other stuff on hand for those 3 or 4 times a week where I might really need them is not in the cards for now.
C was not a problem when I lived in a legal state, but life brings changes and I had to move.
I think we can all agree (well except for asshat's like those mentioned here) that the current system is broken in this area as well.
It's just so damn frustrating. I have a fishing boat, live in Florida and yet never take it out lately because I am afraid I will get out there and end up in a ball unable to move. (It happened once, but I was fortunately able to drop anchor and was in a shady area at least, but it sucked and was quite dangerous trying to get home in the dark when I could finally move in a Jonboat with no lights...)
"I used to vote Republican & Democrat, I also used to shit my pants. Eventually I got smart enough to stop doing both things." -Me
Gubmint, Looking Out For Your Best Interests.
Such an insane box they put you in. That's awful.
MJ is one of Obama's biggest failures. Not only did he not lift a finger to end the war on pot users. But he actively sent the DEA Flying Monkeys to Cali to bust dispensaries after medical MJ was legalized there. I guess to make a point that states have no rights unless the feds give them the rights. F___ Obama.
Donnie The #ShitHole Douchebag. Fake Friend to the Working Class. Real Asshole.
Yep, his lack of action on this in his first term was the...
biggest reason why I held my nose on the 2nd and voted for him while also making the commitment that this would be my last time settling and holding my nose to vote for someone if he didn't fix it in his 2nd term.
He didn't do it, which in a way I am almost somewhat selfishly glad for, because that gives me yet another excuse to not hold my nose this year.
"I used to vote Republican & Democrat, I also used to shit my pants. Eventually I got smart enough to stop doing both things." -Me
Actually under Obama
we had the most raids on dispensaries in this country and they were the most VIOLENT raids as well. 8 years of Obama raids compared to all the other administrations before him combined did not compare.
Obama was the WORST raider. Can look it up on democracy now. So it's not that he did nothing, he did the worst.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Thanks Alphalop :)
I'd venture to say that most of our recreational customers are medicating for many things. We have many that buy because they don't drink. Many buy to get off of pharms.
Watching my kid crumble like this due to lack of dignity is just maddening.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
It's a hideously stupid law...
And I'm happy we passed "Recreational". For the simple matter that it makes access to those who need it for medical purposes easier. Yes, the edibles and medical stupidity is insane. As is the laws regarding drinkables. (Apparently the BATF still rules the roost when it comes to anything with alcohol in it, even if it's not the main psychoactive/medical ingredient)
For those of us who CAN smoke for our needs, the law's annoying, but dealable. I feel very sorry for those who have to jump through the hoops for other methods.
I do not pretend I know what I do not know.
They don't test for roids or alcoholism...
it's just not right.
And I do this for a living. Paperwork bs and yet we can only sell one item per day. Yet a person can buy many guns with less hassle.
Thanks DMW.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Yeah it makes no sense.
My grandchildren can go watch a movie where 100 people are shot and slaughtered but they won't let them into a movie where two boys are kissing. America has it's priorities all twisted...Kill good, Love bad.
There is nothing which I dread so much as a division of the republic into two great parties.. This...is to be dreaded as the greatest political evil under our Constitution.--John Adams
Thank you Kharma
another good example of the idiocracy.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Thank you all!
We just got back from the test.
Everyone thought it was beyond BS! Wes was trying very hard not to cry. Why cry? Because a few weeks ago he was so happy to have been accepted into the program as was the "start" to now being treated like a "bad guy".
As he said, "this is so unfair, I'm not bad."
He has done NOTHING wrong. Nothing.
He will probably fail the "test" and not be allowed into the program but he has learned much more than any on the job training program...
I took a photo of him when he was accepted.... he was so PROUD. I took a photo today of him with his lab test paperwork... totally different photos. Pride to Shame. I'm sending it to Kaiser Permanente, the ones demanding such a test....
Thanks America. Nice priorities you got.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Hey, I wouldn't give up just on this test results
If you have a doctor prescription for Wesley, petition the decision on the grounds that is a doctors orders and treatment plan. And that it is totally legal in your state. Anyone with a heart will see the injustice and make an exception.
Donnie The #ShitHole Douchebag. Fake Friend to the Working Class. Real Asshole.
We tried that
the paperwork is not ready for the "law". It's so insane. It's only been about 8 mos since they opened up autism as a qualifier.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Also Kaiser is saying - Federal Law is above state law...
that is the "law"..
not giving up.... just showing the world how stupid things are.
He did one great thing, the county did try to help him get his card, first time ever for that resource. So that is HUGE!
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Freakin Kaiser. Maybe they would be more sympathetic
if you created a you tube video showing what a bunch of pr1x they are. And it goes viral.
Donnie The #ShitHole Douchebag. Fake Friend to the Working Class. Real Asshole.
Indeed
I'm demanding that they at least explain this to him - to his face.
Who knows, it might get taped. I think it should. (insert evil grin)
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Record everything
Never know when the audio tape will come in handy.
Best of luck to you and Wesley.
Donnie The #ShitHole Douchebag. Fake Friend to the Working Class. Real Asshole.
Then make a video with cats as the players to your audio
That's how things go viral.
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Videos with cats...
Jedi Kittens:
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Kitty Thug Life (NSFW background rap music)
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You can tell him that the world is an especially hard place to
navigate these days and that he must not take it personally because he is one of the good guys and his light will shine through for all to see soon enough. And that we here at c99 send him our love and hold him in our hearts.
Thank you so much mjsmem
It's been a long day. He needs to know that people care. Thank you!
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Maybe you can't explain it so that it makes sense
But you can explain it so that it makes no sense…
It's a very easy few words that explain a lot of the world simply, even though so much is complex and illogical.
Because that's the way it fucking is.
Bruce Hornsby and The Range wrote a song about it…
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Try this again... thank you
Not sure why my replies get to comments instead. But then my eyes are tired today.
Thank goodness I had today off as this drug test bs can only be done within 48 hrs. What a frickin hassle to boot.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Hey. Thank You.
After an earlier comment I made today, Thank You for not jumping the gun and assuming I was 'being nasty' in my response --Short unimportant story - no big deal really, but thanks for not assuming the worst!
Of course not :)
That's just the way it is.
But don't you believe it.
And we know that things can be changed.
Bad laws are meant to be broken by good people.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Shit.
[[hugs for you and your son]]
Life is strong. I'm weak, but Life is strong.
Thank you featheredsprite :)
They are on the phone now telling him no. But the fight is just starting.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
It's a no
Kaiser says policy is policy.
So now we are demanding that the policy maker explain this to Wesley in person.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
I've tried that before...
And they will continue to pass it up the chain until they get to somebody who has the authorization to hang up on you.
All the while continuing to smile and claim they have no choice. Corpra-zombies.
I do not pretend I know what I do not know.
ahhh.. but I am an infiltrator :)
I can meet this person.
The lady heading the foundation is on our side. She's sick to death over this as Wes was her pick.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
I think the explaination is easy...
People want to preserve their profit, or their job, or their scam, regardless of the reality or the effect on everyone else. The hard part is justifying it from any kind of reasonable perspective.
Exactly bunsk
Common Sense just isn't common.
Thank you
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
I am so very sorry and sad to read this -
It's all I have to offer, but I wanted both you and Wes to know that there are so many people who admire all his (and your) hard work to accomplish getting the internship. I send a virtual hug to both of you and I also send out a rude gesture involving an extended middle finger to all the moronic legislators and their ilk who have caused this horrid catch-22. When are we going to see a "war on stupidity and greed"?
Think off-center.
George Carlin
Wes is my hero.
He's many peoples hero. It's Kaiser's loss.
PS sweet black kitty! We rescue black pooties all the time. Always have one in our home.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
His skills and work ethic are still there
He made it on his own merit and that hasn't changed.
His friends all know that this is Kaiser's loss. Not his.
Thank you so much for the kind words, Wesley will be reading these when he's up to it.
He always reads the comments on my diaries.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
I'm sorry about this, Janet.
It's utter bullshit, which is par for the course in America these days. Grrr.
Tell your son we're all proud of him here, regardless of what happens. That's awesome that he's putting himself out there for things like this, and we'll all be rooting for good luck going forward.
Keep us posted, and hang in there, Wesley!
(((geebeebee)) thank you
but he has the right to be armed....
It's just insane.
We will continue onward. It's all one can do.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
From Wesley
He read every single comment in here and he was relieved that while reading them he "kinda quit shaking." "So that is a good thing."
He also said that he doesn't like the photo taken today and it was kinda embarrassed by it because it's not a good picture of him and I offered to remove it but he sees how it's "big time difference in how I feel." So it's okay to leave it up. For now. That might change.
The Foundation (not being named because they are still trying to do good and still hoping something happens) said there is another OJT program but it's 2 hrs away and it's at a hotel that doesn't require testing and that this has made many people mad and they are on the look out for new jobs, interviews and opportunities for Wesley and young people like him.
And he said... it's "been a bad week, the Sharks lost to the Penguins, a horrible shooting that killed a lot of people. Mr. Hockey and Mr. Ali died. It's been sad. Today was just a day."
And... "tell them I'm okay. I'm a good person."
Thanks guys. You rock.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Wishing your son the best of luck
And tell him this Pens fan will root for the sharks next year in the Stanley Cup finals (provided they don't play the Pens).
Also I am sure #9 (Mr. Hockey) is looking down on your son proud of him!
When I was a kid, Republicans used to red scare people, now it's the Democrats. I am getting too damn old for this crap!
Oh thank you, seriously
He will LOVE this comment. Congrats to your team. Class act organization. Derrick Pouillot is a former Winterhawk. And we get Mike Johnston back this season. We are season ticket holders and Wes gets to volunteer with them.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
The Sharks need a lesson from a cheesy hockey movie
Mighty Ducks 3
Yes, I like those cheesy Might Ducks movies.
Play a little defense! The Sharks left your goaltender high and dry most the series. I think your goaltender actually outplayed ours! Its just our defense was all over it from blocked shots (look at that stat, I was amazed) and getting the puck out of the D zone quick.
A better Defense and the Sharks could make a return to the SCF in 2017.
A few key pieces in the off-season could make this happen for the Sharks.
When I was a kid, Republicans used to red scare people, now it's the Democrats. I am getting too damn old for this crap!
Best Hockey Movies
in no particular order except that
Slap Shots is the best of all time. It's a fact. Trust me.
Slap Shots 2 is the Worst movie except for all of the Might Ducks movies. Ew.
Slap Shots with Paul Newman
Mystery, Alaska
Miracle
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Like the list
Mighty Ducks, like I said and freely admit are cheesy. sometimes its fun to watch a cheesy movie
Slap Shot, PURE AWESOMENESS (even own it on laser disc, if you remember that technology)
Love Miracle, have it on DVD (and was at a function where one of the team spoke)
Never seen Mystery, Alaska
Slap Shot 2 was an embarrassment to the movie name
When I was a kid, Republicans used to red scare people, now it's the Democrats. I am getting too damn old for this crap!
Just go buy it now. :)
Mystery, Alaska. I even love the soundtrack. Slightly cheesy with a side of pure hockey heart. You'll thank me.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Have you seen Goon?
That was a pretty good movie if I recall correctly....
Also, Happy Gilmore, Best hockey movie not about hockey.
"I used to vote Republican & Democrat, I also used to shit my pants. Eventually I got smart enough to stop doing both things." -Me
You do not recall correctly. Not at all. :D
I mean really. Goon? There should be some physical form of punishment for even making me have to remember that waste of time.
Nothing too painful, of course. Nothing too drastic. More along the lines of a really bad whopping in a sloppy wet towel snappage fight.
Goon? Do you even like hockey?
Shakes head.
Just kidding Cause we are tired and had a long day and it's nice to chuckle.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
I think I like it because the only position I was any good for
was enforcer. (Played city leagues in Jersey in the early and mid 80's)
But I do have a tendency to find some really good humor in really bad movies. Most of it isn't deliberate which makes it all the more funny to me.
But then again I have probably also watched every episode of Mystery Science Theater 3000 too so my taste has probably been burnt completely out....
"I used to vote Republican & Democrat, I also used to shit my pants. Eventually I got smart enough to stop doing both things." -Me
okay, fair enough. well stated.
we can continue being friendly strangers
PS I love really bad movies.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
American "culture" is a carnival of cruelty
...both at home and for export.
Janet, I only have daughters, but I would be proud beyond words to have such a magnificent son. And you're one helluva mom.
American Culture: corporate approved profit taking carnival
with a few approved Christian or other culture days thrown in.
New years - Parties = $$
Superbowl Sunday - Parties = $$
Valentines - Obligatory gift giving day to 'prove' love = $$
Mother's Day - Buy mom something to show you 'love' her = $$
Father's Day - Buy Dad something, roll your eyes, we had to give them a day to humor them. Less money than mothers day, but hey, corporate effort for money can't be denied.
July 4th - False National Pride in a falling country = Parties = $$
Labor Day - Another eye roll to workers and rights and whatever the original thing meant. All people care about is its a day off and is means a repeat of July 4th without the fireworks, but with football. More Parties = Cha CHING $$
Halloween - Candy - Parties = Money
Thanksgiving = encouraging people to put up with family they have so they feel obligated to some kind of togetherness - also an encouragement to feel lucky for what rights and money, and even dignity the government still allows you to keep - More $$
Christmas - Pseudo Religious Day celebrating someone's birthday form one religion not he wrong day. Stampedes at Big Box Stores. Presents Galore - Parties - CHA CHING
Honorable Mentions: St. Patricks Day, Cinco de Mayo
These are our 'cultural days'. More than a little sad and pathetic, but hey, it's great corporate culture as long as the peons spend enough to break the new projections for profits!! YEAH!
Day meant for Gratitude is followed by day of Greed
My husband, while in Ireland, had to explain why the stores are always open, even on holidays or despite holidays. They asked about Thanksgiving and how now Thanksgiving is fucked due to people having to work Black Fridays at 4 pm on Tday.
It's all about the greeeeeed here.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Thank you R de 14
He's my hero. Always has been. The hockey community has always been there for him and our hockey friends are our family. He can still volunteer with the local hockey program.
It was just a really rough day for him - we get them from time to time.
PS I've been overwhelmed by your incredible comments everywhere here. I just agree with so much of your writing. Your words carry so much passion. Thank you for posting here. And thank you for your kind words about me and my son. He is a champ.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
He can't get an ADA waiver?
Is there no ADA ruling that applies?
If so...Another bill that needs to get updated.
Sorry for this.
I supervise student teachers in elementary classes for children w/ Autism for the University of AZ. I started in Special Education in the early 70's. I've seen a lot of improvements, but new challenges will always occur as rules and regs catch up with technology and research.
Parents are the reason we are as far as we are with incorporating people with disabilities fully into our society. Keep it up!
The ADA has been slowly hacked to death
death by a thousand cuts.
We can't even get a waiver for testing into community college due to cuts in ADA. He can't get credit for classes unless he passes an entrance exam - but he tests horribly and needs assistance. Which has been cut.
The ADA isn't the same anymore. Each year it's been cut.
Thanks for the thumbs up, we all need it.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Just for you, Janet
https://www.charliefoundation.org/ketogenic-therapy/therapies-2/autism
"Politics is the art of looking for trouble, finding it everywhere, diagnosing it incorrectly and applying the wrong remedies." - Groucho
Thank you TPE
Second notice of this particular diet. I'll read up on it for sure.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Please read up on it.
It works. It's based on our evolution and the body's ability to heal itself with a diet that puts you in a proper metabolic state, burning fat for energy. I wouldn't recommend it if I and many people I know weren't on it. I put my money where my mouth is. You don't have to stay at less than 25 gms of carbs per day . A target of around 60gms per day is enough to put you into ketosis ( our natural state of metabolism) but slowly work towards 60 starting with 100 and working down. Stay away from processed meats and eat the protein as raw as possible. Also stay away from any processed "low carb" shit they sell in the store including low carb wraps, it has to do with the free glutamate in them that is bad for people with neurological problems.. I think you'll see results within 3 weeks. Good Luck.
"Politics is the art of looking for trouble, finding it everywhere, diagnosing it incorrectly and applying the wrong remedies." - Groucho
Blessings to Wes for his courage and spirit
This saga made me weep a little, but also made me want to stand up and cheer for both Wes and for you, Janet, his equally courageous Mom. The bureaucratic manure-pile you describe needs to be shoveled away . . . . May somebody with the power to do that get busy, like Hercules in the stables. For a reader with no personal experience of the daily challenges and obstacles that confront autistic individuals and their families, your story arouses great admiration for your persistence and ability to keep your sense of humor. That's "you" plural. I hope the Foundation can find another internship that does not require pee in a bottle.
"Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible." 14th Dalai Lama
Thanks Exdiplopat
every day it's the roller coaster ride. some days, it makes me want to vomit. other days I wave my hands over my head and scream, "wheeeeeeeee"
as he said, today was just another day.
I was hoping this opportunity was going to be more dignifying but instead we are dealing with some blows. thank you
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Keep at it Janet and Wesley
It's their loss.
By not allowing for Medical use they are really being biased in this decision.
Keep circulating the Resume, Keep looking for other Opportunities.
There will be others employers who will appreciate Wesley's goals and accomplishments.
It just takes some time sometimes, to find the right company, program, or apprenticeship.
We even said they could have him pee in a cup every day
to compare, to research to finally realize that this small tincture, this small amount helps him tremendously.
I should post the damn letter I had to write to try and explain to experts how this helps an autistic person when they themselves can't even tell me a fucking thing about autism.
it is their loss. truly.
Wes is embarrassed by the second photo because it shows him about to cry ... he said to keep it up for now but to post this better picture of him.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Haha. Great pic.
And that is one heck of a coffee cup.
Donnie The #ShitHole Douchebag. Fake Friend to the Working Class. Real Asshole.
It's our Holy Grail. :D
Hockey has always been wonderful for Wes.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
He's got his mama's beautiful smile.
Thanks
We both have to make sure this is the season we get our dental appts in. I blew them off this last year.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
I am so sorry
And I understand. It is a frustrating and slow process to change this.
This prohibition weird outlaw status of our Northwestern states as we lead the fight for sanity with cannibus is crazy. I am so very sorry your son is one of those trapped in the middle of it all.
I will name a names. My husband died at OHSU in 2003 because he tested positive for cannibus. He had a legal Medical card from Washington where we lived. He needed a liver transplant because of a form of liver cancer attributed to agent Orange which he was exposed to in Vietnam.
Because of the positive test he was removed from the transplant list and died 3 months later. The real rub is had he taken the oxycontin he was prescribed he would have had no issue.
Turned me into a fighter for legalization. We just have to keep fighting.
I am so sorry pswaterspirit!
it's a horrible law. my co-workers both have kids with leukemia who are now off the transplant lists because eco oil has saved their lives.
I am so sorry for your loss. all this grief over a plant that does so many wonderful things
we will keep fighting! xoxoxo
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Janet there is now a federal law
That prohibits them from taking people off the transplant list over the medical use of marijuana. It was championed by Jeff Merkley. It was passed within the last few months. They may want to find out the current status of that. If they have the energy (sometimes hard to find when trying to care for the gravely ill) contact Jeff and tell their story. Because this is not supposed to be happening anymore.
Consider it done! Thank you PS!
PS, Merkley is a real Democrat
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
Hey, DJ. I'm glad your son is starting to feel better and put
it into perspective. We know you're a good person, Wes. This happens because some of those out there are not good people, or they would make sure people don't get hurt by stupid laws.
Can you find jobs outside the program? Something fairly simple and/or part-time at first until you build up confidence? I'm thinking maybe less likely to drug test.
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Hey there KittiElena :)
Jobs are hard to come by. Especially for the disabled. That's why there's job developer agencies and such. It seems the only jobs around are on the job training or jobs that are so demeaning that you wouldn't want your child to do them. Or questionable job policies. Some places pay the disabled less than minimum wage.
It's all a big grinding ball of frustration. This job was cool to Wes. In a hospital setting. Nice, safe commute. Nice people to work with and the job was almost dialed into his skills.
There will be other jobs and opportunities. It's just the hypocrisy of it, the stupid piss test and how this idea of raising him up actually crushed him.
The second photo shows just what the policy makers do. Crush.
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison
It sounds like any way he goes, he's not going to have it easy.
He's in a big boat. I think of all the talented people at TOP who are "disabled". I was just wondering if the agency has outlived its usefulness.
I hate to say anything positive about the W word, but I shop at WalM all the time (will go elsewhere if I ever get the finances) and I know this store here, at least, hires a lot of disabled. Their employees are happy, for the most part (some live in my 'hood; we talk). It is almost always part-time. From the number of piercings and tattoos I've seen, I'm guessing they're not drug testing. Is that a stereotype? Probably pays lousy. Just a thought if there's one near you, as a starter job. The lousier the economy, the more WalM needs workers. AFAICT, the treatment varies according to the store; this one seems pretty good. Worth a try?
There's also a health food co-op here that obviously doesn't drug test - they all obviously work stoned! Any bohemian place like that around you? They seem to be having a great time. Bagged my ice cream with my hot dinner once, but one can't have everything.
I have read about the below-minimum issue before. I seem to vaguely recall that years ago, the government was paying the difference between what an employer paid and the minimum wage, or at least there was a proposal for such. Am I misremembering?
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Yes, Wesley, you are a good person.
Peace and love be with you, reader.
Thank you Aardvark :D nt
"Love One Another" ~ George Harrison