On protecting children

Jacqui Oesterblad from Liberal with Words has one of the best responses to the "bathroom bill" controversy that I have read in a while.

Controversy over transgender people’s access to public bathrooms is not new—Arizona had a bathroom bill fight back in 2013. But the issue has risen to prominence in the past few weeks because of the recent hubbub in North Carolina, where the backlash to the bathroom bill led Bruce Springsteen and Bryan Adams to cancel concerts, PayPal and Deutsche Bank to cancel planned expansions, and porn site XHamster to shut down access from North Carolina-based IP addresses. The consequences for North Carolina may even include the loss of over $4.3 billion dollars in federal education funding.

Why, despite the economic and legal consequences, do states like North Carolina fight so hard to prevent transgender people from peeing?

The far-right likes to claim they are fighting to protect women and children.

So let’s talk about some little girls who need to be protected.

Let’s talk about 9-year-old Malisa Phillips, the granddaughter of U.S. Congressman Mike Honda. Or 15-year-old reality star and trans activist Jazz Jennings. Or Coy Mathis, who as a first-grader was singled out and told she couldn’t use the same bathroom as the other girls in her class.

As long as we’re talking about protecting little girls, who is going to protect these little girls?

Because the fact of the matter is, there are transgender children.

I’ll say it again: There are transgender children. And transgender children do not deserve to be legally forced to subject themselves to the harassment and abuse of using the wrong restroom—or of having access to no restroom at all. Transgender children do not deserve the trauma of being told at age seven that pose such a threat to their friends and peers that they cannot pee in their vicinity. Transgender children do not deserve to be demeaned and maligned by their own government.

Another trope among the right-wing supporters of bathroom bills is the idea of conflicting rights: “Your rights aren’t more important than mine,” they shout, and they argue that the government needs to mediate these situations in which the rights of two groups of people meet.

Jacqui weighs those rights:

On one side, we have the right to move freely in public. We have the right not to be discriminated against on the basis of sex. We have the right to be protected from the very real and well-documented threat of violence.

One the other side, we have the right not to be around people who disgust you and the baseless fear that children will be abused.

If the government is supposed to mediate between those two conflicting “rights,” the appropriate response seems pretty clear.

If we want to protect children, we need to be investing in resources to prevent abuse by the people who are already spending time with them—which is how 75% of child sexual abuse survivors are targeted. If we want to protect children, we should consider protecting them from Republican politicians.

If we want to protect children, we should protect them from bigotry.

We could get a start on that by being protected from Ted Cruz, who Thursday on Glenn Beck lumped trans people in with "people who are repulsive perverts and criminals," a stance which has even drawn criticism from conservative voices.

At a time Cruz is struggling to expand his appeal, convince “somewhat conservative” and moderate Republicans that he is not a rabid dog and slow Trump’s momentum (just before five Northeastern states with few evangelicals and many moderates head to the polls), this is not helpful. Cruz could have gone a different route and, for example, said that this is purely a state issue and that as a 10th Amendment guy, he thinks presidential candidates should stay out of it. That would have been both true to Cruz’s convictions and good politics, since he would not have been taking sides against the governor and social conservatives who backed the bill.

It is indicative of Cruz’s approach to politics. He draws sharp lines and employs over-the-top rhetoric, in solemn tones. It works in Texas and in areas in which social conservatives prevail. It is not helpful in his current circumstances.

--Jennifer Rubin, Washington Post

Ted Cruz’s transphobic smear campaign peddles a dangerous brand of hate and ignorance. At a time when transgender women are at a disproportionately high risk for violence and assault, Ted Cruz’s reckless ad puts them at even greater risk. Moreover, what message does Ted Cruz think this sends to transgender youth across this country? We deserve a president who’ll fight to protect the rights and dignity of everyone -- not a reckless, feckless politician who’ll do or say anything to score a point.

--Jay Brown, HRC

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enhydra lutris's picture

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That, in its essence, is fascism--ownership of government by an individual, by a group, or by any other controlling private power. -- Franklin D. Roosevelt --

featheredsprite's picture

is just plain freaky.

Actually, nothing exciting goes on in the Ladies' Room. We go into a stall and close the door, do our business, come out and wash our hands, and then exit. No one's genitalia are on public display.

It's just a place to go to the bathroom. And perhaps adjust your makeup. That's all.

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Life is strong. I'm weak, but Life is strong.

jimpost's picture

It ain't a big ball of fun, either. Do your business, wash up, leave. Maybe change the kid. That's about it.

Oh, and never, never, take a urinal right next to somebody if there are open ones down the line! A major faux pas.

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The more people I meet, the more I love my cats.

Electronic Arts made that last line a part of one of their Sims 3 trailers -- it was pretty funny.

Mr. Scribe will often go into a stall when he just needs to pee because he has situational shyness about that at times. And he's been in a women's bathroom before, helping his mom transfer from her wheelchair to the toilet; no big deal there either.

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over Ted Cruz any day of the week. And I think his kids would be better off with you and your spouse than with him and Heidi.

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