Passings

I am a bicyclist, I don't drive anything beyond two wheels and no motor. I don't go as far as I used to, as I have problems with my feet and my ankles. But I do the errands: I go to the post office, to the grocery store, to the water mill. Back and forth, same routes every time, along streets with pleasant landscaping and good dog fencing, because it is not fun to be rushed by loose dogs when bicycling.

The other day I was coming back, loaded up, and noted a fellow waving around what looked like a line trimmer, strolling down the street towards me, carrying on at some unseen party at the top of his voice. OK, what is this? I thought.

I bicycled up slowly, moving to swerve widely around his trajectory. He looked up suddenly, startled, and as I approached, said "Oh, I'm sorry! I was busy."

I immediately responded "It's all right," in my deepest voice, and nodded my head reassuringly. As I bicycled off, I could hear him behind me.

"Thank you!"
"You're a really great person!"
"God bless you!"

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I also sometimes take Falcor out for a walk on these streets. Falcor is the Great Pyrenees border collie cross canid who lives here.

A few weeks ago, we were coming back, and a man approached another man behind us, by a house, and they exchanged greetings. The man on the street continued on towards us shortly afterwards, and as Falcor likes to take his time, he caught up with us quickly.

I looked behind, and seeing him coming, said "Hello."

He came up to us a few moments later, looked at Falcor, and made dog noises and reached out quickly to scratch the dog's head. Falc was like, this is cool, we should do this more often.

I looked up at the man's face and smiled in pleasure. He was covered with tattoos, all over his face, thick bars under his eyes. What do bars under the eyes mean? I wondered. I know tears are dead people.

We stood there like that for just a moment, both wondering about each other, a little uncertain. Then he laughed, sounding a little embarrassed, and averted his gaze. "You got a pretty dog," he said, turning and walking off, to whatever his day held, as we went on to live the rest of ours.

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Unabashed Liberal's picture

aren't they?

I have no clue about the bars under the eyes--that is interesting. Didn't even know the significance of tear drops. Maybe someone else will.

A Great Pyrenees/Border Collie mix would have to be a cool dog!

Mollie


"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart."--Helen Keller
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Everyone thinks they have the best dog, and none of them are wrong.

Miep's picture

Indio, Apache, whatever. I don't know their cultures and I don't know why they decorate themselves as they do.

Falc is a great dog. He's very much a Pyr, except smaller and spotted.

When I get my image sizing software act in order I will add photos to my posts here. I have a tip on a good five dollar program but itunes wasn't cooperating when I tried to buy it.

Thanks for your comment.

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PriceRip's picture

          I knew of this man I encountered in the otherwise empty street downtown. As we crossed paths I said, "hi." Knowing his station in life he "laughed" a low grumbling sound from the depths of despair? or in amusement un-fathomable to those not familiar with his plight. He mistook me for a native of this region and would never know how I understood him well.

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Miep's picture

I used to live in west L.A. and I had a lot of deep empathy for homeless people, as an old friend who went on and off the street finally went completely off the rails, and nobody ever heard from him again. So I would go around looking for him, looking into their faces, examining raggedy men sleeping on bus benches.

To no avail. I did find myself talking to these people, giving them money, buying them a little food, a bottle of beer, a joint. Once I passed by a man shaking on Santa Monica Boulevard, and offered him a five dollar bill. He stuffed it into his pants.

There but for the grace of Dog. It could have been me, if I had poorer fortune and fell off the cliff of complete social isolation. It can all fall apart so easily.

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          I cannot emphasize enough, the importance of stories like these. Vignettes (of non-exploitative tone) that humanize life in the bottom tier give voice to oft forget core issues. I can and probably should write some from personal experience, except for the really big problem of anonymity on the Internet. While I would write from first hand experience, most readers see me as a privileged old white guy, sigh, and that would just get me pissed off. So, Miep, keep on truckin'.

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Unabashed Liberal's picture

since you write about your rides/walks/neighborhood. You have the ability to paint very vivid word pictures--which is a real talent, IMO.

And photos are fun! I would especially enjoy seeing a pic of your Buddy, Falc.

Wink

Mollie



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Chris Hedges, Journalist/Author/Activist, Truthdig, 9/20/2015

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janis b's picture

This is exquisitely beautiful, both your encounter, and your painting of it.

Thank you for writing of one of those unexpectedly special moments that affirm all that is good in life.

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Gerrit's picture

sounds like a wonderful dog :=) Have a glorious day today, my friend,

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