The dangers of family rejection

Augustus Klein and Sarit Golub are professors at the City University of New York (CUNY), Klein in the Department of Social Welfare at the Graduate Center and Golub in the Department of Psychology at Hunter.

They have recent had a paper published Family Rejection as a Predictor of Suicide Attempts and Substance Misuse Among Transgender and Gender Nonconforming Adults.

Data were drawn from the National Transgender Discrimination Survey (N = 6456). This secondary analysis was restricted to 3458 individuals who self-identified as transgender or gender nonconforming and provided complete data on study variables. We used multivariable logistic regression to examine health risks by level of reported family rejection (low/moderate/high), controlling for relevant sociodemographic characteristics.

Most common characteristics that led to high rejection are: being over 45 years of age, being non-hispanic black, being assigned male at birth, having a binary gender identity, having at most a high school education, having an annual income of less than $20K, and being unemployed.

A little less than half the participants (42.3%) reported having attempted suicide. In bivariate analyses, higher odds of suicide attempts were associated with a younger age, a binary gender identity, nonwhite race/ethnicity, lower education and income, and being unemployed. Reports of both moderate and high levels of family rejection were also associated with greater odds of attempted suicide.

We then ran an adjusted multivariable model, including all covariates that were significantly associated (p less than 0.05) with attempted suicide or family rejection in bivariate analyses. All variables remained significant, including family rejection. In the multivariate model, moderate levels of family rejection were associated with almost twice the odds of attempted suicide, and high levels of family rejection were associated with almost three and a half times the odds of attempted suicide.

26.3% of the sample reported misusing drugs or alcohol to cope with ani-transgender discrimination. 45+-year olds assigned male at birth were perhaps surprisingly less likely to engage in substance abuse. Higher rates of substance abuse were associated with moderate and high levels of family rejection.

After adjusting for sociodemographic factors, having experienced high levels of family rejection was associated with almost three and half times the odds of suicide attempts and two and a half times the odds of substance misuse, compared to those who experienced little or no family rejection. Having experienced only moderate levels of family rejection was associated with almost twice the odds of suicide attempts and over 1.5 times the odds of substance misuse.

Familial rejection may be a stressor in and of itself, leading to negative health outcomes. Alternatively (or synergistically), family rejection may deprive transgender individuals of the emotional or logistical social support that provides other stigmatized individuals with a buffer in the face of stressful circumstances.

In the largest study of transgender individuals, ~41% reported attempting suicide. Among individuals reporting moderate or high levels of family rejection in our sample, this percentage was significantly higher (50% and 61%, respectively); however, among those who reported low or no family rejection experiences, this percentage was significantly lower (33%).

These findings suggest that providers serving the transgender community consider the role of families when assessing a transgender person’s social, emotional, and physical health. Providing emotional and informational support to families may help make a critical difference in decreasing the risk and increasing well-being for transgender individuals.

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LeChienHarry's picture

Rejection of family for any marginalized group is a real problem. I see it with people who are sick and not believed.

Marginalized people often turn inward, in despair. We all need to reach out. Only a very few are going to get through life without needing support, recognition or help from others in our close circles or society.

We are our brothers' and sisters' keepers.

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That, in its essence, is fascism--ownership of government by an individual, by a group, or by any other controlling private power. -- Franklin D. Roosevelt --

Although I'm not transgender or struggle with my sexual identity (unless you count involuntary celibacy), I suffer from a crippling social phobia that impairs me in every area of my life. It even makes it seem like I don't want to be with people, when I am simply afraid to leave my house and be seen. Because of my crippling fear, it's like I have a "fuck with me!" sign everywhere I go. I have a thick skin online, but for some reason IRL it isn't an option.

My parents were 15 and 17 when I was born. My father went to prison and eventually raised two other girls instead of me (his only son). My mother was great until she got older and became an alcoholic and a meth-addict for a year or so.

I attempted suicide roughly three years ago. My mother refused to take me to continue therapy after I got out of the mental institution (a few weeks). She developed a co-dependent relationship with a much younger (a little older than me) man, who abused her and stole thousands worth of jewelry. Her mind was so warped she refused to leave him and decided to go to the beach with him on my birthday. That's only one example, but even that's almost too much.

There are a few people who see what's happened, but even they don't really understand how it changed me.

Being in this state of fear and depression for so many years has taken it's toll on my confidence and will to live. Now I know in my heart that I do not have a mother and father who are there for me, who love me. Even though my parents are still alive,

And it is the hardest thing I've ever been through. Indeed every day is a struggle.

My heart goes out to these people. I know what it's like when you feel that even your family doesn't care about you, that you are worthless and deserve to die.

The only helpful thing I can really say is that it is vitally important for someone who's family is not capable of unconditional love, to find someone who is. Because they are out there and they don't care what sex you are.

Plz forgive me if tmi

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