The Empty Self as the Open Door to Rule by Propaganda

(This is a reprise from 2013 that I’d run into accidentally while looking for a vignette of a salt-of-the-earth local neighbor, ‘Albert the Blacksmith’ that  I’d written years ago in order to send it to a friend from the Mancos Valley wayback machine…who is in dire need of some laughing time.  Just above it, and to the left, was this same title, and I’d looked at with a furrowed brow, as it hadn’t rung a bell with me…at all.  But when I read it, it seemed even more germane to the current mainstream, acceptable Amerikan zeitgeist than then.  I’ll modernize it at the bottom.)

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A recent piece at Dissident Voice entitled ‘The Global Crisis of Legitimacy and Liberation of the Empty Self’ caught my eye, mainly because I tend to believe that too many in our society are largely unaware that they even have inner lives, psycho-spiritual  inner selves, meaning that they haven’t actually examined their values and choices, residual emotional issues, etc., leading them to reflexively accept what this society has determined for them is ‘a successful life’, rather than a richly satisfying one; one that might lead to dying well, which is my personal measure of ‘a life well-lived’.  Many in that state often fill their personal void spaces with shopping, the newest gadgets, this year’s fashions, and other temporary fixes, the fullness only lasting so long, of course, since their true unrequited hungers may be wholly psycho-spiritual in origin.

In extreme form, those unexamined needs can pave the way to addictive behaviors underpinning wealth and property accumulation, power-seeking just for the thrill of it, even though, again, there are no permanently satisfying levels for those acquisitions that call off the hunt automatically once reached.  As: how much is enough?  Studies conclude that ‘enough for a relatively secure future’ is more than enough; no matter, the addicted can’t internalize that measurement, can they?

It doesn’t take much sensitivity to feel that there is an increasing background hum of dissatisfaction in the air, but my sense of it is that so much of it is a free-floating anxiety that folks may have chosen the wrong road, and are feeling isolated, lonely, often angry and fearful, and sense that something’s just not right.  My sense is also that they may go back and forth about their own part in the wrongness, but still are conditioned to cast blame outward, railing at the same authoritarian institutions they actually see as the authors of possible solutions to their discomforts.  Yes, a serious disconnect it is.  Many citizens alleviate their discomforts through joining a team, one that reinforces their personal beliefs or credos, not realizing that those often have cultural roots that have been thrust upon them.  To wit: think what schools have taught us: loads of American mythology and jingoism that amply demonstrated what part or parts we would need to play in an Exceptional capitalist society: work hard, make a lotta money, become President!  Might is right!

The author, Nozomi Hayase, has a different, but related, reason for hooking her essay to the empty self, rather by way of answering Ted Rall’s question about American passivity in the face of all that’s afoot these days in a dozen different fascist and unjust directions.  She begins her unraveling of the question with observations about the normalization and easy acceptance of manufactured perceptions of the current zeitgeist, the acceptance of ‘brands’ rather than substance, feel-good faux-political Blue v. Red team sports aided by phony media horse races and staged political drama.

She references the recent dramatic shifts within the various political labels, and the normalization of inhumane ideas and actions that were roundly condemned (say by ‘Liberals’) not long ago.   She reminds readers of Shock Doctrine fears and vulnerabilities leading to rather blithe acceptance of the overarching agendas that were the PTB’s agendas in any event.  All of those now-deadened senses coalesce into what she calls ‘a second skin’, blocking the pain from the heat as the Frogs Slowly Boil, i.e.: blocking out reality.  Not surprisingly, she sees this administration as the zenith of managed perceptions and extreme deadening gobbled up by the villagers on the teevee, popular music and movies, news as slick (often sick, I’d add) entertainment, etc.  That, writes Hayase, ‘creates a lukewarm feel-good political bath replacing real human experience with pseudo-reality. This artificially installed skin intermediates our experience of actual events’.

Zo, back to ‘the empty self’.  The term was coined by psychologist Philip Cushman in a book, and in this paper at the University of Texas (pdf, 13 pages) in which he theorized that a ‘self’s’ construction could only reasonably be examined within the context of the historical culture and milieus of the self’s time and place.  Hayase encapsulates the relevance of his work in her mind:

‘Psychoanalyst Phillip Cushman, in Constructing the Self, Constructing America, analyzed how in post-World War II United States, modern industrialization broke down the traditional social bonds (the pre-modern self having been one that is rooted in family, religious faith, tradition, and community: my addition from his writings) and restructured the reality of community and that out of this, a specific configuration of self emerged. He called it “the empty self”, “the bounded, masterful self” and described how it “has specific psychological boundaries, a sense of personal agency that is located within, and a wish to manipulate the external world for its own personal ends”. He characterized this empty self as one that “experiences a significant absence of community, tradition and shared meaning — a self that experiences these social absences and their consequences ‘interiority’ as a lack of personal conviction and worth; a self that embodies the absences, loneliness, and disappointments of life as a chronic, undifferentiated emotional hunger”.

Cushman argued how this new configuration of self and its emotional hunger was indispensable to the development of US consumer culture.’

We can only assume that he’s speaking of a person’s unconscious desires, knowledge, and related derivations leading to external manipulation ‘for it’s own personal ends’.

She marches on to the relevance in postmodern USA:

‘Cushman argued how this new configuration of self and its emotional hunger was indispensable to the development of US consumer culture. Stuart Ewen, in his classic Captains of Consciousness, explored how modern advertising was used as a direct response to the needs of industrial capitalism through its functioning as an instrument for the “the creation of desires and habits”. “The vision of freedom which was being offered to Americans was one which continually relegated people to consumption, passivity and spectatorship”, Ewen saw this in the shift of economy from production to consumption and of personal identity from citizens to consumers.’

Yes, indeed, and she further quotes our old friend Edward Bernays, who parlayed his uncle Herr Doktor Sigmund Freud’s theories of the unconscious into his book Propaganda, in which he states:

‘“The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country”.

Hayase calls the work: “the executive arm of the invisible government.”  Good framing, isn’t it?

How do you sell propaganda, candidates, ideas, jingoist memes, or the need for unnecessary objects that will be tossed into the landfill six months later?  Easy, say Jung and his friend Marie-Louise von Franz: you play on unconscious archetypal drives and desires that can be easily projected externally.  Use this perfume: you’ll catch a husband; drive this car: watch da ladies flock to you; buy this huge house; go to this college; Need a new iPad? charge it!; need a facelift, breast augmentation to catch that special man?: 99 dollars down, sixty-three EZ payments! (don’t read the fine print); Vote for Hope and Change!  Drown government in a bathtub!  Well, you know it all…

The Commons are not Free Speech Zones!   Do not create intentional community with others.  Seek only what benefits you and yours since the economic shit is about to hit the fan again. We are Rugged Individualists.  Blue Team, Red Team means Choice!  Are you With Us, or Agin’ us?  Despondent?  Angry? There’s a Pill for that!  What the banks did may have been immoral, but it wasn’t illegal…Bomb for Democracy, Bomb for Peace; Don’t pay any attention to the man behind the curtain!  Keep the Homeland Secure!

And on and on the internalized allegiance to Product Authority goes, so few being able to resist with dulled senses and reasoned argument against the constant din of the consumer culture.  Those of the dissenting, creative, and rebel classes are crushed, jailed, and surveilled as ‘Terrorists’.

Manufactured propaganda is working very well in the current Government Shutdown ‘crisis’.  The R’s are behaving like such flagrant assholes that the D’s look benevolent in contrast.  But if you look more closely, as per David Dayen or Norman Pollack, you’ll see how false the framing really is, and what will happen as a result of Obomba’s sequestering.  No matter; the polls already show the R’s will be held culpable, as in Newtie Gingrich’s day.  The award-winning Obomba Brand has won (aided by the Crazy R’s of course).

But Hayase sees hope of course, as the wheels turn toward more and more global citizens acknowledging the illegitimacy of the institutions and governing bodies and that have sold out The People, and the abject perfidy of Ruling Elite whose crimes against humanity, both militarily and domestically should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.  More and more of us are calling for true democracy, as we begin to pierce the Veil of Propaganda, creating new alternatives, manifestly proving that the need for our autonomy, our voices heard.  As more of us experience the horrors of the Planned Privations comin’ down the track soon, even the middle class citizens will feel more exposed, and will be forced to examine their beliefs and inner values.  Hayase again:

‘In this nakedness, therein lies the possibility for a true freedom. Only when our emptiness is fully confronted and accepted can we find our true autonomy. With emotions and desires that are truly our own can we guide the world into a future that springs from the depth of our imagination.

Who am I? Who are we? What do we want? The thirst for real democracy is a thirst to be free. It is the spirit that drives us to find our true aspirations within. Our self is empty. When society loses its grip and leaders become devoid of morals and compassion for humanity, we need to declare autonomy from all those outside that try to allure us and promise to fulfill our dreams. Through connecting with our own desires and passions we can fulfill the void of the empty self and transform empty slogans into real action. Only then will it be possible for us to become the authors of our own lives, transform history and take charge of our common destiny.’

From my own minuscule spot in the cosmos, it’s an article of faith that the positive changes that are occurring are part of the Revolution of Higher Consciousness foretold by many of the Indigenous prophets around the globe, calling for creating brotherhood among ourselves and with the planet in understanding that we are inextricably bound together both materially and spiritually.   They believe that there are ways to live in harmony, justice, and cooperation, knowing that we were meant to be creatures of cooperation, not competition.  Exactly as MLK had tried to channel, no?

Truth is coming, it will not stop.  You cannot kill an idea whose time has come.

What are your thoughts?  We’ve just skimmed the surface of managed perceptions and propaganda.  I know that many readers have developed able bullshit detectors, whether through my definition of a fuller self, through reading history, using analytical thought and reasoning.  Have you developed skills in aid of the Great Awakening in your communities?

But ya know what?  I suddenly feel like an idiot.  Having chosen this video accompaniment a couple weeks ago when I began researching for this piece (competing psychological theories, ontological (never mind the hardwired v. acquired arguments) and philosophical schools, and more), I’d forgotten that all I’d really needed to present was this John Trudell video. (Rest in Power, you brilliant warrior)  His prose said it all, while I spent goodness knows how many words bending your ears (er…eyes).  Forgive me, please.

‘Trying to isolate us in a dimension called loneliness leading us into the trap believe in their power but not in ourselves piling us with guilt always taking the blame greed chasing out the balance trying to isolate us in a dimension called loneliness.’


(the extensive lyrics, bless american humanity’s heart)

Some modernizations; feel free to add your own.

Last night on one of our PBS stations was an ad for Part II of Frontline’s ‘Putin’s Revenge’: ‘a 2 part examination of Vladimir Putin‘s rise, rule, motivations and the accusations of Russian involvement in the 2016 U.S. presidential election.’  It’s either a redux, or our stations hadn’t carried in late Oct./early Nov., but in any event, it goes hand-in-glove with the Mueller investigations of Russia-gate  The trailer:


CNN’s ‘review’ was tragi-comedic in utter lockstep with the psyop, of course, but at least it was on their Entertainment tab.  My favorite parts:

“Far from just resentment toward Hillary Clinton and efforts to destabilize a geopolitical foe, Putin has nursed “a lifetime of grievances” against America, the narrator intones during the latest soberly impressive production from director Michael Kirk and his team.

“Putin’s Revenge” goes on to detail the Russian leader’s history as a KGB officer when the Berlin Wall fell, and the psychic scars left by those events before he succeeded reformer Boris Yeltsin in 2000.

Foremost, Putin saw democratic movements rising around the globe in recent years, as well as dissent within Russia, as being fomented by the U.S. according to experts interviewed by Frontline. The Russian strongman — described as being “obsessed with TV” — was especially struck and alarmed by images of Libyan dictator Moammar Gadhafi being beaten and killed by an angry mob.

Meddling in the American election thus served not only as a means of undermining a rival but an equalizer, even if the cyber campaign’s architects didn’t expect it to actually sway the outcome.”

‘Progressive’ Salon.com decoded those sections this way:
“From there, many moments in recent history were seen by Putin as one slight upon another. Bush’s post- 9/11 and the subsequent topping of Saddam Hussein in Iraq and Muammar Gaddafi in Libya as well as uprisings brewing in former Soviet countries were seen as existential threats. As he centralized power, restoring Joseph Stalin’s national anthem with new words in the process, his quest to make Russia great again became just as much about elevating his standing in the world and deteriorating America’s.”

 

Then there’s Emptywheels’ Dec. 16 ‘Poot and POTUS Plan to Move Beyond the Mueller Investigation’ in which she parses different reports of a Herr T-initiated phone call with Poot after he’d seen reports he’d been mentioned during Poot’s long Q and A presser.  Afterward she report on Poot having been interviewed by Terry Moran, and yes, his lauding of Trumponomics was disgusting, but Marcy Wheeler takes Putin’s answer to the question ‘do you still want to normalize relations with the US/Trump as “do you still want to go steady?”:

“Putin wants to get on with things, with making good on his investment in Donald Trump. And in response to that message, Trump made moves towards trying to end the investigation that would show such a plan would be the quid pro quo for Putin’s help getting Trump elected.”

Comments are full of ‘What does Vlad have over Trump?’, ‘Putin and his oligarchs have stolen half of Russia’, ‘sewing chaos’, ‘he controls the Russian media and kills journalists!’ etc.

But altogether, it’s another version of ‘The White House has been painted Red’.

Now as to owning media narratives, all we have to do is look at PropOrNot (anti-‘Russian propaganda’) (nothing remotely left of center is recommended), and stifling dissent in the US of A?  Keeee-rikey!  And yet, we are free to vote, so we are a Democracy!  Unless it’s stolen by…Russia and WikiLeaks, right?  Or look at Google News directing traffic against even a bit left-of-center websites.  With such compliant media, there’s no need for exact ‘state control’.  Haven’t our own oligarchs committed massive theft against the people and polluted the Commons?  Hasn’t the US deposed countless leaders and ‘interfered’ in elections, hello CIA, Soros, color revolutions, including a host of once socialist nations in the global south?  Nah; we’re the good guys of the Colonized Mind Kind!

And of course, at the core of it all is the fact that Russia and other ‘ferrin’ alliances are challenging the Western Imperium in aid of a multi-polar world.  Can’t have that, can ‘we’?

On 1/28 updates from comments:

this is not satire, but what a psyop: NATO joins the #MeToo movement

“Ending gender-based violence is a vital issue of peace and security as well as of social justice. Nato can be a leader in this effort”

“In our different roles we have seen how conflicts in which women’s bodies and rights are systematically abused last longer, cause deeper wounds and are much harder to resolve and overcome. Ending gender-based violence is therefore a vital issue of peace and security as well as of social justice.

The Nato Alliance was founded to safeguard not just the security but also the freedom of its peoples: in the words of President Harry Truman, as “a shield against aggression and the fear of aggression”. Sexual violence continues to be employed as a tactic of war. For nearly 70 years Nato has stood for collective defence against military threats. But also for the defence of democracy, individual liberty, the rule of law and the UN Charter.”

gob-smacking hypocrisy, but i’ll let julie hyland deconstruct the rest for you. she also reminds us of the many men raped, sodomized in prisons sponsored by the US and nato. good gawd all-friday.

this is a democratic socialists? LOL!

Cross posted from: café babylon

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but question the premise. Not a teevee consumer, so don't get the programming factor. Wonder if the vacant mind is more a product of self protection? Anyway, good to read you at the cafe.

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@QMS
might be the early consumer society underpinned by edward bernays-style propaganda as far as i can tell back in the day. i suppose it still is true, although i don't watch teevee except for 'masterpiece' on pbs. but i appreciate the welcome.

'programming' is all that is reflexive w/o consulting one's inner life, and it of course includes 'education'.

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Gets your blood flowing.

"believe in their power, but not in ourselves".

At the end, "Look at them! Who are they!

Hell ya.

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@Big Al

there are few humans who ever turned poison to medicine in the glorious, truth-telling way that he did.

a heading from his biography tab at johntrudell.com:

'In 1979 that war took a terrible personal toll on John Trudell, in the form of an unspeakable tragedy that changed his life forever.'

this is the last song he recorded as he was dying of cancer. such a different tone. his last words, iirc, were: "my ride's come for me". here's hoping his ride was similar to 'the white owl'...

[video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fRTMe_EPgSM]

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" if that which thou seekest thou findest not within thee, thou wilt never find it without thee.

For behold, I have been with thee from the beginning; and I am that which is attained at the end of desire."

-- Doreen Valiente source

Failure to learn this lesson, well and early, is the root cause of everything this Essay complains of (and rightly so). The realization of this lesson, and that of the Hindu principle of namaste which goes along with it, is the antidote to this problem. We must embrace the rich and complex inner life we all were born to have; once on that path, we must also embrace and foster the same in everyone else. (Namaste: "the Divine in me salutes/venerates the Divine in thee.")

The only alternative is an unproductively selfish existence endured by an empty self. In other words, Hell.

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"US govt/military = bad. Russian govt/military = bad. Any politician wanting power = bad. Anyone wielding power = bad." --Shahryar

"All power corrupts absolutely!" -- thanatokephaloides

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@thanatokephaloides
and belief. the hard part, of course, is "we must also embrace and foster the same in everyone else."

bless your heart.

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and kick ass in the afterlife.

“Robert Parry, the classic investigative journalist, founder and editor of the Consortium News website, has died.
In his last post on December 31, An Apology and Explanation, he offered these closing words of his long career:

[A]s the New Year dawns – if I could change one thing about America and Western journalism, it would be that we all repudiate “information warfare” in favor of an old-fashioned respect for facts and fairness — and do whatever we can to achieve a truly informed electorate.

Robert's son Nat Parry, who also writes and edits at Consortium News, gives an overview of Robert's work in his obituary. There was hardly any large political scandal in the last 40 years, that Robert Parry had not reported on. He truly made a difference.
May he rest in peace.’

b at Moon of Alabama
http://www.moonofalabama.org/2018/01/robert-parry-has-died.html

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@wendy davis I had read about his troubles earlier. Rest in peace Bob. Big loss.

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i'd thought it was in his 'apologies' diary that he'd said he'd been losing friends as a result of his dedication to deconstructing bullshit narratives. it must have been earlier, but i'd imagine the pressure of that may have led to his stroke.

just this morning i'd been ranting against a stupid essay there containing crap like 'the world looks to amerika for moral leadership' and wondering who in the hell was editing the place while he was in the hospital. must have been his son, but he'd also featured 'better dems' norman solomon.

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in the intercepted podcast was dead on...
Marcy Wheeler -

...we know from the studies that have been done after the election that what really resonated with people was still old media, cable news or Breitbart, more so than anything that came off of Facebook. And there was plenty of disinformation that came out of Fox News and still is coming out of Fox News — and that is what I think has poisoned our politics.

I have no doubt Faux news is a propaganda machine that has driven us to the right , but in terms of disinformation I think she could also have said CNN, MSNBC, and all the others. Why after this statement she can still push the russiagate narrative is beyond me.

Interesting essay.

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“Until justice rolls down like water and righteousness like a mighty stream.”

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@Lookout
but i hadn't wanted to go score her exact quote. it was in a piece she did about wikileaks having published CIA exploits vault I and vault II. close to: 'on, no! that will seriously weaken the CIA!' only one commenter said: 'Good!' jayzus.

as for the intercept's fearless investigative journalism': pfffft. only reason i go is to grab quotes on their screeds against wikileaks and assange (yanno: the Bad Whistleblower) and publish them.

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@wendy davis

...but I still have some respect for Greenwald, Scahill, Fang, and others at the intercept. My take anyway...hey, you gotta get info somewhere.

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“Until justice rolls down like water and righteousness like a mighty stream.”

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@Lookout

"hey, you gotta get info somewhere", lol. "indubitably, my dear watson!" i'll do you the favor of not harshing yer mellow listing the many reasons that i believe the place is bogus (or worse), okay?

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@wendy davis

Ryan Grimm and the Reality Winter mis-step gives me pause. But if you got goods on Glenn or Jeremy I would like to know. No bubble to pop here. I just would like to know why you might think Greenwald and Scahill are untrustworthy. Thanks.

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“Until justice rolls down like water and righteousness like a mighty stream.”

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smarter than that. Most likely it's becuz all the kewl kids at ToP (and elsewhere) have bought the Russia! bull$h!t and she doesn't want to rock the apple cart.
@Lookout

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The Russian strongman — described as being “obsessed with TV” — was especially struck and alarmed by images of Libyan dictator Moammar Gadhafi being beaten and killed by an angry mob.

We know that Herheinous found his murder funny, but I would think that saner people would have found it to be abhorrent. He was sodomized by a sword for gawd's sake. After watching it the Clinton Creature laughed and clapped her hands like a silly little child. This alone should have disqualified her from running for president.

Empty Wheel has gone down the rabbit hole too? I just don't understand how people can't see that they are being manipulated by the PTB.

Thanks Wendy. i enjoy your writing.

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Which AIPAC/MIC/pharma/bank bought politician are you going to vote for? Don’t be surprised when nothing changes.

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but not enough of us, of course, because: putin/roosia. i'd actually edited out a link and quotes from 'progressive' salon.com. for length that showed high approval for the agitprop. oh, bother, i just dug out the word.doc, and it doesn't have a link. but here's cnn:

CNN’s ‘review’ was tragi-comedic in utter lockstep with the psyop, of course, but at least it was on their Entertainment tab.
MY favorite parts:

“Far from just resentment toward Hillary Clinton and efforts to destabilize a geopolitical foe, Putin has nursed "a lifetime of grievances" against America, the narrator intones during the latest soberly impressive production from director Michael Kirk and his team.
"Putin's Revenge" goes on to detail the Russian leader's history as a KGB officer when the Berlin Wall fell, and the psychic scars left by those events before he succeeded reformer Boris Yeltsin in 2000.

Foremost, Putin saw democratic movements rising around the globe in recent years, as well as dissent within Russia, as being fomented by the U.S. according to experts interviewed by Frontline. The Russian strongman -- described as being "obsessed with TV" -- was especially struck and alarmed by images of Libyan dictator Moammar Gadhafi being beaten and killed by an angry mob.

Meddling in the American election thus served not only as a means of undermining a rival but an equalizer, even if the cyber campaign's architects didn't expect it to actually sway the outcome.”

glad ya liked it, snoopydawg, but it's kinda embarrassing for me to note that even four or five years ago i could write some coherent passages myself. but as vonnegut always said....'and so it goes'.

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It is a strong affirmation of so much that is essentially wrong and needs attending to.

The image of the earth stuck on a turtles back, whose direction is unknown is quite powerful.

Peace Piece ...
[video:https://youtu.be/Nv2GgV34qIg]

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@janis b

can enough of us wake up in time to rewind a lot of this? hard to have much hope by now. the turtle is by way of the many indigenous tribes who call north america 'turtle island'. so many representations have been artistically rendered over time. but i confess it's long been an article of faith with me that it would be the global indigenous women who would lead us out of this morass, and yes: it's sexist of me, lol. but partially by way of 'seventh generation' thought, though there have so many strong indigenous warrior women. ha. reminds me of another trudell talking poetry.

[video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OkncZ1Gktmo]

thank you soooo much for 'peace piece'. whooosh.

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I think American culture has been inhibited from emerging from its adolescent stage. It seeks autonomy but can’t find the strength and maturity to challenge authority. This powerless feeling and position doesn’t seem to be becoming any less incapacitating.

I'd rather think though, that the feminine spirit and mother earth will prevail.

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@janis b

i join you in that hope and belief, and am glad to know that many men also evidence feminine spirit. as i'd said to big al up yonder, trudell turned poison into the most glorious socio-spiritual medicine like no other i've known.

bless your heart. in solidarity,
wd

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"Don't be such a victim" It is your thinking brain that is broken, not "the system" itself.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, there were no examples presented me on how fucked up the system is, how wages don't pay rent anymore, how charity has replaced opportunity, how grandma lost her mind and became your child living at home, along with your grown kids, how "we're capitalists" and everything has become nothing in fact. It's all up in your head. So it is up to each of us to decide what to fill our heads with, every day.

For example, a depressed woman may think, “I can’t face going into work today: I can’t do it. Nothing will go right. I’ll feel awful.” As a result of having these thoughts – and of believing them – she may well ring in sick. By behaving like this, she won’t have the chance to find out that her prediction was wrong. She might have found some things she could do, and at least some things that were okay. But, instead, she stays at home, brooding about her failure to go in and ends up thinking: “I’ve let everyone down. They will be angry with me. Why can’t I do what everyone else does? I’m so weak and useless.” That woman probably ends up feeling worse, and has even more difficulty going in to work the next day. Thinking, behaving and feeling like this may start a downward spiral. This vicious circle can apply to many different kinds of problems.

WTF!? That is so NOT what motivates people to give up according to my own proximity surveys, but hey I'm no professional. MeToo never happened, and blah blah blah whole damn dollar, etc.. Torches of Freedom baby! okie dokie

Yet I insist to keep trying to find some re-entry point, back in to dysfunctional dying culture of consumption, 'cause that's where everyone else is. Identity.

peer pressure

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@eyo

lives of quiet desperation lived in cubicles w/o doors. the artist did a whole series i'd used to anchor a diary, but not one person at the café had remarked on the artwork! sorry i'd forgotten the artist's name.

but sure, so much of psychology is 'adapt to reality', then go get that damned job, be a useful cog in the capitalist machine, go shopping!, etc. and increasingly, psychiatry is magic pills to make you adaptable. but where's our soma? and why isn't it handed out freely along with the jet packs we were promised decades ago? but the bits you clipped also reminded me of three other things: 'don't sweat the small stuff...it's all small stuff!', which pisses me purple. and neuro-linguistic programming: no more negative loops!, isn't it?

third is homelessness, and the epic numbers growing as i type. a very good friend of the café, through no fault of his own, is now homeless in olympia. their camp was shut down two days ago, and i haven't heard a word from him, but i'm hoping that the prisoners the city hires to 'clean them out' didn't toss his laptop or smartphone into a dumpster. but he'd offered that it was a direct failure of capitalism that there are so many charities, whether cons or not. but at least the food not bombs folks served a vegetarian meal most days around noon...w/ no strings like 'you must pray before you eat' as w/ so many soup kitchens and the like.

as one periodic café commenter often says: 'it didn't have to be this way'. let that simple truth melt through you. thanks for sharing that, eyo.

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